#DefundThePolice

Community Policing, Not Police State

Political Observations and a queer history less

by NK Tryggvason

This is gonna cost the NDP. funny how conservatives get away with it, eh

That said; I agree with him, the police caused at worst and failed to prevent at best. a fatal fail either way.

https://thepostmillennial.com/jagmeet-singh-false-claims-deceased-accident-victim-called-out-twitterJagmeet Singh makes false claims about deceased accident victim on Twitter, gets called outNDP party leader Jagmeet Singh made a claim regarding the death of Regis Korchinski-Paquet, stating that she was actually killed by police. Singh’s statement led him to face harsh criticism from all sides, with many denying the veracity of his remarks.thepostmillennial.comShare (1)Emoji

Alex Blue

That’s the world of politics for you. At least it’s not as bad as religion.

It’s not our place what people want to do behind doors. It’s not a Canadian pastime. Americans are hooked on who screws who or what religion someone is or isn’t. We Canadians don’t need to bring our standards down to their level. If Americans want to be stupid, let them be stupid. We are Canadians, we need to know better.

nina tryggvason

indeed. there is the famous quote about the nation not having an interest in the bedrooms of the nations by PM Trudeau 1.0


‘There’s no place for the state in the bedrooms of the nation …www.cbc.ca › player › play

Trudeau defends the sexual practices of Canadians,

uttering the statement that made him famous. …

‘There’s no place for the state in the bedrooms of the nation‘.

53 years ago; … Peter Gzowski’s last interview with Pierre Elliott Trudeau.

and Alex, had it been up to him, Canada would have had marriage equality in 1985 instead of 2003. an entire generation of exclusion. when AIDs thinned our numbers and we became a market niche and a voter block. queer was not just for celebs, it was everyday ordinary people too. LGBTQ2, eh

Towards Equality, but when?

1833

By declaration of the British Parliament, slavery was banned throughout the British Empire.

August 28, 1955

Fourteen-year-old Emmett Till from Chicago was abducted from his uncle’s home while visiting him in Mississippi. Two white men brutally murdered the black teenager for supposedly whistling at a white woman. On September 23, a jury acquitted both defendants after a 67-minute deliberation. The two men lived the rest of their lives without formal punishment and died of cancer in the early 1980s.

August 28, 1957

U.S. Senator Strom Thurmond of South Carolina began a 24-hour and 18-minute non-stop filibuster – the longest ever by a lone senator – in an unsuccessful attempt to derail passage of the Civil Rights Act of 1957.

August 28, 1963

In Washington, DC, an estimated 250,000 Civil Rights advocates joined the “March On Washington For Jobs And Freedom.” They gathered at the Lincoln Memorial to hear songs by Mahalia Jackson, Joan Baez and Peter, Paul & Mary. The climax of the event was the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. giving what became known as his “I have a dream” speech.

1984

The Jacksons’ Victory Tour broke the record for concert ticket sales after they surpassed the 1.1 million mark in two months.

Lionel Richie had his second #1 on the AC chart from his great albumCan’t Slow Down as “Stuck On You” was #1 for a second week.

Ray Parker, Jr. had his biggest career hit as “Ghostbusters” reached #1.  That ended Prince’s hold on the top spot with his great song “When Doves Cry”.

Prince made it seven weeks in a row with one of the top R&B songs of the 1980’s–“When Doves Cry”.

Purple Rain was in its fifth week of release with two at #1 on the Album chart. 

Tina Turner had a Top 10 album with Private Dancer

1986

Tina Turner is awarded a star on the Hollywood Walk Of Fame.

1990

Mariah Cary reached #1 on the R&B chart with her first single “Vision Of Love”.

1992

Ray Charles sang “America The Beautiful” at the opening of the Mall of America in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

1996

Isaac Hayes, who co-wrote Sam And Dave‘s classic “Soul Man”, sends a protest letter to presidential candidate Bob Dole, requesting Dole stop using his song, which supporters had changed to “I’m A Dole Man.”

1998

A biopic about Frankie Lymon and The Teenagers, “Why Do Fools Fall In Love,” starring Halle Berry, Vivica A. Fox, and Larenz Tate as Frankie, opened in U.S. and Canadian movie theaters. Little Richard and Ben Vereen made cameo appearances in the film.

2005

 “We Belong Together” by Mariah Carey was #1 for an 11th week

2020
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/world/article-thousands-gather-as-new-march-on-washington-marks-fraught-anniversary/New march on Washington embraces history on fraught anniversary of Martin Luther King speech – The Globe and MailThe 57th anniversary of King’s ’I Have a Dream’ speech comes at the end of a summer of racial unrest and nationwide protests, sparked by the death of George Floydwww.theglobeandmail.com

religious sex scandal yawn

anyone surprised?

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-53897647Jerry Falwell Jr denies quitting Liberty University amid sex scandal – BBC NewsJerry Falwell Jr denies leaving Liberty University after claims emerge about his private life.www.bbc.comShare (1)Emoji

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Big Gay Al ☆☆☆

To be expected, at this point. I’m not surprised at all, tbh.

nina tryggvason

yes. I wonder why they go through the public hater phase, its such a cliche

Tom The Bug The New Gay Stereotype

Alex Blue 

I don’t know why this is even gets attention when there are more serious issues at hand?

For examples:

Why is Valdamere Putin allowed to live and rule Russia when he’s another Adolf Hitler?

Why are Russians racist, homophobic, misogynistic hateful bigots?

WTF is wrong with devout extremist religious people and their hate for science and reason, their hate for universal human rights and lastly why are they such bigoted blind sheep?

Why are there’s an anti LGBTQ rallies in B.C. Canada and Poland?

Why there’s a rise of racism and racial decisions?

Why religious people neglecting to protect themselves from COVID-19?

Finally: Why, why is Trump so fucking stupid?

because christian and muslim are the same religion, part of judaism and the Abrahamic trilogy would rather destroy the planet than allow others to pursue happyiness.

this I posted as a normal news as a break from Putin having a north pole base and the geo political instability. and Canada has no federal government and is facing a throne speech and confidence vote in the fall while there is a pandemic.

blue collar jobs do not pay as well as brains at workstations jobs and religion undermined education. so while Canadians are over educated and underemployed, Americans are unqualified to get back the jobs they outsourced in the 1970s

religion gives people that feel good about poverty and the scapegoat gives them someone to blame for the problems they are the cause of.

preachers preach poverty is noble and they live in mansion complexes with private planes and own networks…. so when they help themselves to children, teenagers and vulnerable adults… this is why the personal is the political because it just represents. predators who prey…

putting the fun back in fundamentalist the fear that somewhere someone is having fun.

okay – if you did not do a thing and someone said they had video (never mind that we pretty much have the tech to create such a video)

the inability to prove a negative problem, but also a confession

the more powerful in public the more submissive in private

ask any dominatrix.

https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2018/04/comey-trump-asked-me-to-prove-the-pee-tape-wasnt-real.htmlComey: Trump Asked Me to Prove the ‘Pee Tape’ Wasn’t RealComey writes that the president asked if the FBI could investigate the “golden showers thing” to prove to Melania that it wasn’t true.nymag.com

If you have to touch a conservative, be sure to out them afterwards

it is the only way they will learn the closet is a bad place and to not genocide others.

otherwise, do not have sex with conservatives

https://nationalpost.com/news/world/jerry-falwell-jr-becki-tilley-giancarlo-granda-liberty-universityFormer cabana boy speaks about sexual relationship with Jerry Falwell Jr. and wife Becki | National PostGiancarlo Granda says he had sex with Becki Falwell, watched by Jerry Falwell Jr, an influential figure in the U.S. Christian conservative movementnationalpost.com

hate crimes: people say terrible things and others tend to act on them

https://www.yorkshireeveningpost.co.uk/news/crime/hateful-rhetoric-against-transgender-people-culminating-physical-attacks-sheffield-lgbt-charity-warns-2949759Hateful rhetoric against transgender people is culminating in physical attacks, Sheffield LGBT charity warns | Yorkshire Evening PostHateful rhetoric against transgender people has echoes of the homophobia seen forty years ago and is even resulting in people being attacked, an LGBT charity has said.www.yorkshireeveningpost.co.uk

https://www.washingtonblade.com/2020/08/19/supreme-court-sets-nov-4-to-hear-if-adoption-agency-can-reject-lgbtq-parents/Supreme Court sets Nov. 4 to hear if adoption agency can reject LGBTQ parentsThe U.S. Supreme Court has set Nov. 4 as the date when it will hear oral arguments on whether a taxpayer-funded religious-affiliated adoption agency can lawfully reject same-sex couples — a case that could have significant impact on policies and laws prohibiting discrimination across the board.Show Morewww.washingtonblade.com

https://friendlyatheist.patheos.com/2020/08/23/anti-muslim-megachurch-preacher-real-christians-hate-abortion-and-lgbtq-people/Anti-Muslim Megachurch Preacher: Real Christians Hate Abortion and LGBTQ People | Hemant Mehta | Friendly Atheist | PatheosThis delusional buffoon wants his congregation to catch COVID.friendlyatheist.patheos.com

no really not.

https://www.gaytimes.co.uk/life/new-polish-minister-has-linked-lgbt-ideology-to-a-civilisation-of-death/New Polish minister has linked “LGBT ideology” to a “civilisation of death”Zbigniew Rau, the Polish Minister of Foreign Affairs fits right into the homophobia in Poland, having linked “LGBT ideology” to a “civilisation of death.”www.gaytimes.co.uk

  1. tradition on their side and 3. religion is why the planet does not have nice things like no war and universal health care and human and environmental rights.. but especially human ones.

https://www.toledoblade.com/news/religion/2020/08/23/religious-offerings-virtual-multi-faith-service-celebrates-lgbt-pride/stories/20200823016Religious Offerings: Virtual multi-faith service celebrates LGBT pride | The BladeMulti-faith pride
Equality Toledo sponsors a virtual multi-faith service at 7 p.m. Thursday.
Described as a welcoming and affirming service in …www.toledoblade.com

dear queer people do not marry straight people.

they deserve to have someone who loves them as they are

just like LGBTQ2 do and now in many nations, we can say i do

https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-53907669Elton John’s ex-wife ‘attempted suicide’ during their honeymoon – BBC NewsRenate Blauel says she took an overdose during the couple’s honeymoon in 1984.www.bbc.com

see also Covid Pandemic bonus

dear politics. that is not how science works.

https://www.ctvnews.ca/world/without-evidence-trump-accuses-fda-of-delaying-vaccine-trials-until-after-election-1.5075363Without evidence, Trump accuses FDA of delaying vaccine trials until after election | CTV NewsU.S. President Donald Trump on Saturday accused, without providing any evidence, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration of deliberately delaying coronavirus vaccine trials, pressuring the man he had picked to head the agency.www.ctvnews.ca

dear science, this is how politics is supposed to work

https://www.thestar.com/politics/provincial/2020/08/21/doug-ford-and-justin-trudeau-team-up-to-get-n95-masks-made-in-ontario.htmlDoug Ford and Justin Trudeau team up to get N95 masks made in Ontario | The StarSpooked by a shortage of N95 masks early in the pandemic — and rattled by U.S. President Donald Trump’s threats of cutting off vital supplies — Ontari…www.thestar.com

LGBTQ2 and Incel Culture

Nina replies: Here is a thought, angry and desperate is not attractive. Develop a personality and find your physical style.

society’s standards are only to blame to a point. then, it is down to your personal presentation to attract a partner or multiples, one after the other or overlapping

There is also the matter of unrealistic expectations people have from movies and tv shows about human relationships, they are effort not an entitlement.

from the article:

But the movement is growing increasingly popular amongst the LGBT+ community.

‘I am ashamed to say that I’m a gay incel. For a long time I’ve felt deprived of getting the attention of men. It has made me bitter and resentful towards them.

‘I don’t want to say that I’m shallow because I like a wide range of men as long as they’re masculine. Maybe to some that sounds shallow. But I don’t care because it’s my life and I have a right to choose who I want to date or have sex with.

‘Why should I have to settle for less because I have a hard time finding a date?’

That’s what one frustrated gay incel wrote in repsonse to my heavily opinionated video titled Too Ugly for Sex: Gay Incels.

You can see that original video about the world of ‘gaycels’ here:

A trans guy commented on the same video, that:

“I relate to some incel content. But it stops as soon as they get into the realm of pure hatred towards women because… Well, I kinda used to be one of those.’

Indeed, I’ve had similar comments from queer women and men alike. All of them loathe their inability to obtain sex and romance. Moreover they all blame society’s cruel beauty standards for the barriers they face.

https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/why-a-growing-number-of-lgbt-people-are-incels-and-angry-they-arent-having-sex/Why a growing number of LGBT+ people are incels – and angry they aren’t having sexThe ‘gaycels’ claim that the LGBT+ world’s unrealistic standards of beauty force them to be ‘involuntarily celibate’. But are they making it worse for themselves?www.gaystarnews.com

Sexual and Gender Spectrum Points


back in the 1990s, A lesbian friend of mine tried to set me up with a friend of hers. I say tried, because she’d brought this gal along to a group outing without telling me it was a set up.

The gal was in a relationship with a man (living together) and was thinking she might be bi.

She was very confused since the people she talked to the boyfriend and our mutal friend both wanted her to pick sides. The boyfriend obviously wanted her to be straight, while the lesbian friend refused to believe in bisexuals and tried to influence her to be a lesbian.

And that’s where I came in. We talked, we danced and had a fun time – and when she was leaving the dance, I walked her outside to wait for her ride home to arrive.

She was nervous to be alone, and being the generous sort that I am, I put the cards on the table.

“Do you want me to kiss you now or when your roommate comes for show?”

“Now” she said, “I don’t want an audience.”

I was happy to be her first girl kiss, and it was pretty magical.

But then, she felt guilty and admitted that it was her roommate and her boyfriend who were due to arrive.

I told her that I had known, that our mutual lesbian friend had explained the situation to me.

I asked her if she was willing to leave the guy to explore her new identity and she said no.

I asked her if she’s given up other men for him – of course she said

So why does it matter if you’re happy with him that you’ve also given up women?

The relief that flooded her face and body was amazing.

I saw her another time for a friendly coffee and I went to a cafe where she was having an art show. I can only hope it’s as sweet a memory for her as it was for me.

Mostly I am glad that I was able to give her permission to enjoy her heterosexual relationship without guilt or pressure.

It’s funny to me how many times that I have been asked to give people permission to live the life that they want to; and every time, it’s been about sexuality.

If there’s anything a person should know about themselves, it’s sexuality. Know what you’re attracted to, what you like, and don’t be afraid to be yourself.

It doesn’t matter what you like, as long as you don’t harm other people – unless they give you permission to and establish a safe word.

https://dykewriter.wordpress.com/2018/10/15/revisited-bis-and-gals/

https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a33545454/am-i-bisexual/‘Am I Bisexual?’ 18 Bisexuality Signs from Experts and Real WomenIf you’re wondering, “am I bisexual?” read on for some common signs and experiences here, as explained by sexuality experts and women who know firsthand.www.womenshealthmag.com

bisexual is a spectrum, it is not a 50/50

but if one does not like to do the same to both genitalia, perhaps one is not actually bisexual

there is a difference between what is done to you

and what you do for your partner

so. when gender is part of what is attractive and also repulsive in terms of sexuality….

https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/dislike-oral-sex-advice.htmlI hate giving oral sex to women. How do I make myself like it?Can I change my ways?slate.com

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2020/08/09/bisexual-bisexuality-pamela-stephenson-connolly-sex-monogamy-triad-polyamory/

Bisexual guy worried he has to ‘choose’ a gender gets an illuminating lesson in monogamy, polyamory and triadsA bisexual man is afraid that he will “always have something missing” from his sex life if he enters a long-term relationship with a woman.www.pinknews.co.uk

https://www.intomore.com/culture/after-max-and-ivan-revisiting-the-l-word-as-a-trans-masculine-personAfter Max And Ivan: Revisiting ‘The L Word’ As a Trans Masculine Person“In the 10 years since I first saw ‘The L Word,’ I’ve changed and so has the lens through which I understand the world; storylines that were just high drama then now make me cringe.”www.intomore.com

https://www.outinperth.com/unsung-heroes-tells-the-story-of-wa-drag-king-pioneer-effie-fellows/Unsung Heroes tells the story of WA drag king pioneer Effie Fellows – OUTInPerth – LGBTIQ News and Culture | OUTInPerth – LGBTIQ News and CultureBlack Swan State Theatre Company are diving into local history with an online performance series that reveals the untold stories of five incredible Western Australians. Unsung Heroes brings a world premiere season directed by Emily McLean and Joe Paradise Lui that brings together some of WA’s best local talent to bring the tales of WA’s …www.outinperth.com

https://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-53936529Mr Gay England: The trans man competing ‘against an idea of male beauty’ – BBC NewsChiyo feels his masculinity is judged every time he steps outside. Next year it will be judged on stage.www.bbc.com

The saying “gender is between the ears and sexuality is between the legs” is easy to remember, but too simplistic. Your gender is whatever you feel and believe it is.

Believing in a gender binary, where only “men” and “women” exist, has created a stifling system where personality traits are attributed to one gender or the other. This ignores the vast intersections where male, female, and non-binary characteristics exist, co-mingle, and crossover.

https://www.yourtango.com/2020331791/what-really-means-be-genderfluid-how-affects-your-romantic-relationshipsWhat It Really Means To Be Genderfluid — And How It Affects Your Romantic Relationships | YourTangoWhat Is Genderfluid? Genderfluid Is Non-binary, Meaning An Individual Doesn’t Identify As A Specific Gender. But Having An Identity That Differs From Male Or Female Can Bring Issues With Romantic Relationships.www.yourtango.com

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-7995457/Groom-didnt-know-gender-fluid-fianc-walk-aisle-man-woman.htmlGroom didn’t know whether gender fluid fiancé would walk down aisle as a man or woman | Daily Mail OnlineAs Douglas Davidson, 51, from Scotland, stood at the alter, he had no idea whether gender fluid husband-to-be Chris Law, 37, would walk down the aisle as himself or ‘blushing bride’ Fiona.www.dailymail.co.uk

https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/uk-news/proud-mum-lgbt-family-says-18843039Proud mum of ‘LGBT family’ says she only realised she was gay after her husband came out as trans – Wales OnlineJenni and Sarah have want to show other couples that relationships can ‘survive a transition’www.walesonline.co.uk

how is the husband heterosexual with a tranman as a spouse?

https://www.dailyxtra.com/trans-straight-parents-family-177616

I’m a trans man with a straight cis husband. We’re ready to start a family | Xtra MagazineAs a bisexual trans man with a straight cis husband, the discussion of having kids is complicated by matters of surrogacy, adoption and raising kids in the U.S.www.dailyxtra.com

Quirk Sugarplum

They had 8 years together before Andy realized he was male and began to transition. I expect Raj simply loves him for who he is and they’ve found a way to work things out.

People. Go figure.

nina tryggvason

everyone is their own expert and coupledom is up to any given couple, i have been pondering the relationship of heterosexuals who date BTQ2s vs those who are PFLAG allies so – this is an intellectual/academic question- how does one person identify as a heterosexual male when their partner is not a heterosexual woman? their relationship is more queer than a heterosexual male/ bisexual woman or a bisexual man/gay man.

it is good to know that for some couples, it does not change anything. as for the couples who separate and divorce even, that happens for many reasons as each person grows in their own way and when the couple is doing less than their best life. it is time to make changes.

let the heterosexual women who started slash fan fic have it, eh

https://www.syfy.com/syfywire/nine-reasons-kirk-should-absolutely-be-bisexual-in-strange-new-worldsNine reasons Kirk should absolutely be bisexual in Strange New WorldsJames T. Kirk should absolutely be bisexual in Strange New Worlds — here’s why.www.syfy.com

MEANWHILE. in the illogical extreme:

because age is a measurable thing outside of the human meaning.

time passes and is marked. aging.

humans are more complex than most worldviews allow and cultural expression is one thing, and individuals another.

https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/lifestyle/stellar/if-people-can-be-gender-fluid-why-not-age-fluid/news-story/5814a2e30686d482cfb1db8a57b008afYounger author Pamela Redmond: ‘If people can be gender fluid, why not age fluid?’ | Daily TelegraphShes the woman behind the hit television series Younger. Here, Pamela Redmond opens up about her real-life battle with ageism.www.dailytelegraph.com.au

when will lesbian movies lesbian?

https://www.redbrick.me/sapphic-sensibilities-lesbian-representation-in-cinema/

Sapphic Sensibilities: Lesbian Representation in Cinema | Redbrick Film Film Critic Chloe Carruthers bends over backwards to paint a portrait of saphhic cinema that champions education and accurate representationwww.redbrick.me

FWIW, I believe my first cinematic lesbian experience was the 1980’s movie Windows, which was profoundly disturbing on many levels. It left me confused and upset and drove me to withdraw further into my shell. 😕10 Replies

i do not know that one. my first lesbian one was Desert Hearts and my first gay one was Zorro the Gay Blade and Boys don’t cry my first transmovie

Long story short, it portrayed the horrors of a straight woman in an apartment building who was the sexual target of an obsessed, deranged lesbian neighbor. Not a great message.  😟

oh. sounds like a direct to video. one of those make the heteros feel better ones.

It was released to theaters, but I saw it on one of the big cable movie channels. And weirdly, I’d swear that I also saw another version of exactly the same movie around the same time. Maybe just weeks or months apart. Same story, different actors. As if one demonizing wasn’t enough. 😕

that was the lesbian tropes. the serial killers if not vampires. the predatory butches who suicide to save the femme and return her to heteronormativity.

Mrs Danvers in Rebecca…

or 1960s The Children’s Hour the two teens gone astray. suicide or 1929 Pandora’s Box murdered

or the positive ones, Miss Hathaway on Beverly Hillbillies

or the Lesbian Period Pieces where they take too long to lesbian in elegant wear of yore, all the ache and angst one can stand to sit through a tsk tsk wasn’t society mean then. as if different now. eh.

okay. that is too good I have to try to blog that


chronological list of LGBT-themed films, 1916-1989, with …www.imdb.com › list
Aug 15, 2013 – First ever gay-themed film starring Conrad Veidt (of ‘Cabinet of Dr. … the first and campiest “women in prison” flick as it’s chock full of Lesbian …

The 200 Best Lesbian, Queer & Bisexual Movies Of All Time …www.autostraddle.com › 100-best-lesbian-queer-bisexu…

Jun 18, 2020 – Lesbian movies aren’t known for being excellent, but we’ve found 100 films … Based on the true story of Spain’s first same-sex marriage, Isabel …
A Florida Enchantment (1914) First Lesbian movie ever …www.youtube.com › watch
Sep 25, 2016 – First Lesbian movie ever! Full movie. In this historical milestone -a young woman discovers a seed that can make . Three and a half minute …

33 Best Lesbian Movies You HAVE to Watch | Once Upon A …onceuponajrny.com › lifestyle › best-lesbian-movies

Feb 2, 2020 – We are so fortunate we live in a day and age where there are more lesbian films than ever. A lot has changed since the first lesbian film …
10 great lesbian films | BFIwww.bfi.org.uk › news-opinion › news-bfi › lists › 10-…

Apr 22, 2020 – … look back through film history at 10 of the greatest movies about lesbians. … when the movie world could proclaim the first openly lesbian film.

https://www.varsity.co.uk/lifestyle/19492Why is ‘lesbian’ still a dirty word? | VarsityThis Pride month, Miranda Stephenson considers the reluctance of many to claim the word ‘lesbian’ for their own, and why ‘gay’ may not by the ultimate umbrella term for allwww.varsity.co.uk

https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/unpacking-lesbian-erasure-in-2020_au_5f3b6f96c5b6e054c3fe3944It’s 2020, And Australians Still Can’t Say The Word ‘Lesbian’ | HuffPost Australia LifeGrowing up believing the right to love women was reserved for men, heterosexuality didn’t just become the norm for me, there was nothing else.www.huffingtonpost.com.au

Why it is not a joke ever

only one reason for gay sex to be top of mind and the go to joke

https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/joking-gay-sex-homophobic.htmlIs joking about gay sex homophobic?Should I tell them to stop?slate.comShareEmoji

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Joke about it. As a gay, gay sex is funny.

yes, LGBTQ2 get to joke about it. people who are heterosexual do not get to. and those are the jokes at issue. bullying is not a joke to the person who is the target of the punchline. it is about their sexual squeamishness and hypocrisy.

in fact, if sex does not including laughing during, you are doing it wrong.

Big Gay Al ☆☆☆

Bullying is a lot different than joking, imo.

nina tryggvason

yes. in group it is joking mostly and only sometimes bullying, whereas heterosexuals it is not a topic they are qualified to joke about as if they know. so that is always bullying.

bullies always claim they are joking.

Big Gay Al ☆☆☆

True, I guess its subjective

nina tryggvasona few seconds ago

I think I drew a clear line, which both sides of are capable to understand. so the real question is, since many lgbtq2 experienced heterosexual sex. do we get to make fun of that? and the butthurt they get, after their anal squeamish “jokes” about gay male sex, is that heterosexual sex is just as icky to us and why we are queer

Big Gay Al ☆☆☆

Please, make fun of sex. Its funny, and deserves to be made fun of.

well. when I started this group there was a few gay men doing dick pics in the chat area. so I said everyone had to post genitalia and everyone stopped posting. so apparently taboo is the best sex and permission kills it. which marriage sorta proves too

Of Rights and Eggs

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2020/08/trump-pardons-lesbian-suffragette-susan-b-anthony-didnt-want-pardoned/Trump pardons lesbian suffragette Susan B. Anthony. She didn’t want to be pardoned. / LGBTQ NationThe “most famous lesbian in America in the 19th century” was proud of her arrest, which she strategically used to advance women’s rights…www.lgbtqnation.com

https://www.advocate.com/politics/2020/8/18/hrc-deletes-tweet-praising-chicagos-lesbian-mayor-criticism-mountsHRC Deletes Tweet Praising Chicago’s Lesbian Mayor as Criticism MountsMayor Lori Lightfoot is being attacked from across the political spectrum for her handing of policing during protests.www.advocate.com

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8638533/Lesbian-influencers-spark-debate-giving-away-donor-sperm-prize.htmlLesbian influencers spark debate after giving away donor sperm as a prize | Daily Mail OnlineYouTubers Allie and Sam, from, Halifax, Nova Scotia, have sparked fierce debate after offering to give away a vial of donor sperm to their 225,000 fans on social media.www.dailymail.co.uk

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2020/08/19/same-sex-lesbian-gay-penguin-couple-electra-viola-baby-chick-spain/Adorable lesbian penguin couple welcome their first baby chickIn today’s brief break from dreary news, a gay penguin couple have welcomed their first baby and it’s every known kind of adorable.www.pinknews.co.uk

Queer on Film: Watermelon Woman

The 1996 Black lesbian film that became essential viewing for 2020The coronavirus pandemic has come with an odd paradox for the movie business.

I saw this film just before the pandemic at the Vancouver International Film Festival’s Black History Curated Selection. this one and Go Fish were probably the most important lesbian movies of that decade – not coming out taking too long to lesbian or one or both dead at the end nor returned to the safety of heteronormativity, nor murders or vampires.

from the article:

More than two decades after its release, her groundbreaking arthouse film, The Watermelon Woman, has been making something of a mainstream comeback. News outlets like Vanity Fair and Complex are writing think pieces on the film’s significance. The Criterion Channel included her semi-autobiographical 1996 film in its Black cinema spotlight, as well as in its June 2020 Pride month lineup. That’s because the movie depicted intersectional struggle before “intersectionality” was even considered a thing: the story follows a Black lesbian filmmaker named Cheryl who works at a video rental store and who is making a documentary about a Black lesbian actress from the 1930s.

Wedding vs Hater Cake

https://www.towleroad.com/2020/08/anti-lgbt-activist-orders-cake-with-hateful-message-from-lesbian-owned-bakery-then-cries-discrimination/

Anti-LGBT Activist Orders Cake With Hateful Message from Lesbian-Owned Bakery, Then Cries Discrimination – Towleroad Gay NewsAn anti-LGBT activist ordered a rainbow-colored cake with a hateful anti-gay message from a lesbian-owned bakery, then cried discrimination when his request wasn’t fulfilled. David Gordon, who works for the Michigan-based right-wing Catholic group Church Militant, ordered the cake last month from Good Cakes and Bakes in Detroit, which is owned by April Anderson and …www.towleroad.com

If you are truly incapable of distinguishing between an act of love and an act of hatred, then you need to sit down for a very long, very careful re-evaluation of your life.

If on the other hand you’re intentionally not distinguishing between an act of love and an act of hatred, then you need to sit down for a very long, very careful re-evaluation of your soul.

given that the religious relationship between the deity and the follower could be on the domestic abuse relationship checklist… they really are unable to distinguish.

Moderates and Apologetics are not True Beleivers

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In a way, I can admire the clarity of thinking of fundamentalist believers; they just believe whatever is told them, without question. It must be very restful to not struggle to understand, but just accept. I can understand the appeal … Continue reading →

religion is force of evil

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Religion is not a force of good or positiveness in the world. Religion doesn’t teach people to care for and look out for each other – as evidenced by the Mormon and Catholic Church’s continual efforts to prevent gays and … Continue reading →

Ordering Cake and Eating It Too

Posted on December 31, 2017by dykewriter

The Oregon Court of Appeals ruled against bakers who refused to make a cake for a lesbian couple’s wedding, upholding the fine against them. The case involved Sweet Cakes by Melissa owners Aaron and Melissa Klein, who told lesbian couple Rachel Cryer and Laurel … Continue reading →

Cake to the Pie Hole: Karmalicious

Posted on March 6, 2018by dykewriter

Bakers who refused to make wedding cake still trying to get out of paying damages Randomutation • 3 hours ago The claim that refusing to service a celebration of same sex marriage discriminates against gays is as illogical as saying that the … Continue reading →

Cake Politics: Ending the Rule of Law

Posted on June 5, 2018by dykewriter

That narrow Supreme Court decision may not stay narrow for long Nina Trygg • 2 minutes ago religion is now a get out of jail free card free to refuse service, deny rights, rape and murder and nothing remains narrow in law … Continue reading →

Services and Cake, who gets to order and eat it

Posted on August 27, 2019by dykewriter

Dear America: you were founded on the idea of freedom FROM religion. https://catholicherald.co.uk/news/2019/08/26/kentucky-supreme-court-hears-religious-freedom-case-over-lgbt-shirts/ Kentucky Supreme Court hears religious freedom case over LGBT shirts | Catholic HeraldThe Kentucky Supreme Court heard oral arguments on Friday in the case of a Christian … Continue reading →

Religion causes genocide and suicide

Posted on July 30, 2019by dykewriter

finally the headline I have been waiting to see https://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-49150753 LGBT people are ‘being made homeless due to religion’ – BBC NewsNearly half of young LGBT people left homeless after coming out are from religious backgrounds.www.bbc.comShareEmoji 1 Alex Blue3 minutes … Continue reading →

Hatred has no moral grounds

Posted on August 14, 2018by dykewriter

Jeff Sessions spoke at a hate group summit & told them ‘You are not a hate group’ Susan D • 5 days ago If your organization’s “sincerely held religious belief” includes hating people, then yes, you are a hate group. … Continue reading →

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Bathroom Access and Dignity

Posted on February 3, 2019by dykewriter

This is the thing about rights they are not conditional on any other person’s value judgement.  everyone has a right to dignity to go about their lawful and private business and religion is a personal opinion, with followers now claiming … Continue reading →

Bathrooms: Private vs Public Access

Posted on February 3, 2018by dykewriter

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Policing Public Bathrooms

Posted on March 5, 2017by dykewriter

Public Bathrooms are the place where children, women and vulnerable people are at at highest risk of being verbally or physically abused – and the vast majority of abusers are Heterosexual Men. Male violence against other males as primary competition … Continue reading →

Bathrooms and Elevators

Posted on January 1, 2017by dykewriter

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Fatty Fatty 2 by 4, Can’t Get Through the Bathroom Door

Posted on August 20, 2015by dykewriter

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