Sex and Stigma: stop slurring, negging and name calling

all sexualities’ are both fetishized and face disinterest

everyone needs to take a breath step back,

learn to accept a no, learn to say no

and mostly, learn to stop naming calling those not interested

not every sexuality is attracted to all others

and there are sexualities that are specific to biological gender

https://www.redbrick.me/why-is-bisexuality-still-so-stigmatized/Why is Bisexuality Still So Stigmatized? | Redbrick CommentComment Editor Phoebe Snedker discusses biphobia and misconceptions about the sexual orientation, arguing that the countless stereotypes have a significant impact on bisexual people and their relationships with others.www.redbrick.me

it is not biphobic nor transphobic to say no to a date.

it is homophobic and transphobic to claim it was reasonable to assault, rape and murder as heterosexual men do in court

Every person is allowed to say no, I am not interested, not attracted.

that is the opposite of a fear, which is what a phobia is.

To not want the difference between hetero, gay or lesbian which is a sexuality mismatch with a bisexual person

and a gender mismatch for heteros, gay men, bisexual males and females and lesbians with persons who are transgender; as an the outward appearance and a mismatch with the gender one desires intimacy and sex with – the clothes away from heterosexual, but combined with the co-opting feminist intersectionality theory and pushing a penis into it; and especially the pornography term cotton ceiling, the confession of fetishization of lesbians, which frustration is not ours to resolve. Human rights recognition is all that is owed – dignity in the public square

and the loss of safe and crisis space for women – such as rape and battered women’s shelters for mostly heterosexual women, but also bisexual and lesbians – and the newly emerging pansexuals

seeking safety from partners who control the language, the financial and relationship decisions, and who cannot accept a no inside or before a relationship even.

and bisexuals having the usual of being thought to be more likely to cheat, while being sought by men for threesomes

each person identifies themself in terms of who they are and who they seek to date.

heterosexuals, gay men, bisexuals and lesbians are clear in that by the words.

the pansexual group is distinct from bisexual and is a word that includes attraction to transpersons

to each group their own label to advertise who a person is seeking to partner with, monogamously or polygamously with informed consent

and anyone who complains they are unable to get dates, need to work on their appeal, not cry fowl, bigotry, name call, complain about stereotypes or social standards, and generally demonstrate what an unappealing and inconsiderate person one is of other people’s human rights and identity

which, a demographic which forms a dating pool, such as lesbians or gay men, everyone is not secretly bisexual or trying to mimick heterosexuality

and a person feeling like they belong is demonstrated by those in the dating pool not including them

and while a person may have a diagnosis of trans, or be uncomfortable with one’s own body – it is not up to any other person to date you and ignore their own senses and own identity to be validator

Lesbians are vagina experts as gay men are penis experts

bisexuals enjoy both, but not a blend of both genders in one body

and bisexuals can date each other, as well as often heterosexuals, gay men and sometimes lesbians, which prior to marriage equality, bisexual women tended to have longer relationships with men, and bisexual men did too.

pansexuals date whoever; because everyone is dating another person.

no one enjoys being a fetish across demographics especially

nonbinary is an emerging demographic which has yet to form a clear recognition in and out of the demographic and males may not self identity out of being part of the gender oppressing women and the majority of the violence and sexual violence threats, any more than women may nonbinary self identify away from potential harm – and no women’s sexuality protects them the socialized and individual male gender caused violence.

Lesbians are not the caretakers and validators of the rest of the letters who are unclear on what lesbian means an apparently are okay with rape culture when no does not mean no anymore but a challenge to escalate to name calling and shaming.

Transpeople are not marginalized by gay and lesbian and bisexuals, but by their population statistics, with most seeking relationships with heterosexual men

Lesbians get to date other lesbians, without being shamed or excluded from the community which is ignoring lesbians have a right to say no to a date with anyone, but also as a demographic to say transwomen are not lesbians and are a category of incel – to be polite, for lesbians, transwomen are clothes from heterosexuality – and transphobia is the hetero justification for rape and murder – so the lesbian no to a date is very much the opposite; and in the case of a transwomen and a lesbian, it is the lesbian who is the rape vulnerable body; especially if denied a no to a date, which means not having a no to sex, which is denied informed consent, a no and by the logic extreme, even the safeword to end sex when the sex is unwanted or the scene includes something not consented to.

We helped Gay men with Aids after the heteros women did not help lesbians after they got reproductive and workplace rights

Lesbians are woman centric, and we have the choice and right to be

without being slurred, shamed or judged for who we do not date

any more than who we do

in fact, everyone needs to stop being bothered because most people are not dating you

and stop being bothered who is dating who

and stop harassing others who have nothing to do with your life nor you theirs

The Terf Turf “Discussion”

one is redundant, the others; communication skill

1 A cunning linguist is an individual who is skilled at communicating and orally speaking

2 A cunning linguist is an individual who is skilled at communicating and oral

3 lesbian

Heteros who insult, assault, rape and murder LGBTQ2 and also hetero women, btw, are the ones who are phobic.

Not being attracted to is not the same as being a bigot.

this is phobia.

not dating people from other letter groups is not phobic.

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2021/05/14/oregon-house-representatives-lgbt-gay-trans-panic-defence/Ban on abhorrent gay and trans panic defence unanimously passed by OregonThe Oregon House of Representatives unanimously passed a measure that bans the gay and trans panic defence in legal proceedings.www.pinknews.co.uk

Hetero men who name called when refused dates are bad behaviour and any women who denies lesbians or any person a no on a date – which is a personal choice, and not a human rights issue – is part of the problem of dating.

to each person preference of desire and to the choice of sexual selection and intimate relations

Lesbians helped heterowomen get reproductive and workplace rights and then they went off and enjoyed those… then there was AIDs….. and now… this:

*article quotes*

However, our findings throw up several questions:

Who is on the wrong side of history when the GBT community operates a large-scale gaslighting of lesbians to accept the mantra that “trans women are women”; penises are deemed to be a female organ; and heterosexual intercourse is now redefined as a lesbian sexual practice?
Who is on the wrong side of history when the GBT community uncritically supports a population of transwomen who identify as lesbians to coerce lesbians into having sex with transwomen against their will?
Who is on the wrong side of history when lesbians’ sexual boundaries are disrespected and publicly demonised as hateful by the very charities whose purpose it is to defend them?
Who are the GBT organisations protecting by refusing to engage with lesbians’ very serious concerns?
Major gay, bisexual and trans organisations such as Stonewall and Pride in London should hang their heads in shame for ignoring our rights.

https://news.trust.org/item/20190412100802-6md1q/Lesbians need to get the L out of the LGBT+ communityLesbians are being callednews.trust.org

stop demanding dating as a condition of human rights support

that has to go both ways and to deny a no is to deny rights

lesbians do not expect their lesbian partners to be pregant and if the partner is a transwoman, it is very foolish to expect a lesbian to be sad she cannot get a transwoman pregnant. when the pregancy risk is the other way.

lesbian and gay sex is not procreative sex and that is part of it’s appeal and attraction.

https://slate.com/human-interest/2015/02/cisgender-lesbians-and-trans-women-how-to-mend-the-rift.htmlCisgender lesbians and trans women: How to mend the rift.In theory, our multifaceted, multilettered queer community is all about alliance, solidarity, and mutual support. Though we’ve seen advances in areas…slate.com

https://watermarkonline.com/tag/lesbian-erasure/Lesbian Erasure Archives – Watermark Onlinewatermarkonline.com

Generational change is inevitable, healthy, and necessary to progress. What I am living through right now is a painful transitional moment in which some of those older lesbian institutions are still going strong, and seeking participation and funding, while a current generation of activists are distancing themselves from such events, or even demonstrating against them. Younger, queer activists were vocal in opposing the Michigan Womyn’s Music Festival; right-wing religious groups once eager to shut the festival down had moved on to bigger targets. This dynamic—a next generation of feminists attacking earlier lesbian institutions and disparaging their participants as less evolved—is not unique to the 21st century or the United States; it is embedded in Jill Gardiner’s powerful book From the Closet to the Screen, which describes a 1970–71 Gay Liberation Front “zap” against London’s Gateways Club bar. As this generational shift grinds on, how should the most recent decades of cultural production be interpreted, understood, and preserved? How will we use the tools of history to examine something we know existed as an investigable community?

https://slate.com/human-interest/2016/12/disappearing-lesbians-and-the-need-to-preserve-dyke-culture.htmlDisappearing lesbians and the need to preserve dyke culture.My generation of lesbian activists, who honed our identity politics and confronted racism and classism in the spaces of women’s music events and…slate.com

dear bi, pan and trans women

sometimes bisexual is a portion of a woman’s life and she later lesbians and maybe call me then, see if I am available.

sometimes a person is attracted to a person because they are unclear on their own self and what they are attracted to, that personality of a sexuality and gender person.

so when bisexual women end up with men or are a phase but are not a phase. it is as exhausting as men who say they are women and then dress like women and surgically mutilate their bodies. still not women and do not define lesbian words.

i am attracted to vagina and not interested in a penis or a reverse penis hole that lacks a gspot or cervix and a woman around it.

meanwhile. bisexual and pan women and transwomen are able to date each other, without lesbians having to date outside of our group preference arising from our individual choices and preferences.

I am a lesbian, the word is gender and sexuality in one, seeking the same expression in another lesbian.

Lesbian erasure is the tendency to ignore, remove, falsify, or reexplain evidence of lesbian women or relationships in history, academia, the news media, and other primary sources.

Lesbians may also be ignored within the LGBT community and their identity may not be acknowledged

attraction to someone is not done by debate or framework

it is a physical response and an emotional reaction to the personality

lesbians have no reason to be made to feel that they have to date any person, trans or not and no one should deny anyone a no

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbian_erasureLesbian erasure – Wikipediaen.wikipedia.org

women are being erased in the medial sphere and in LGBTQ

the words mean specific things and transwomen do not represent the women experience

transwomen are using the same male gaslighting behaviours and then accusing women of anger

when transwomen are getting women’s awards and being positioned as role models

while complaining about the cotton ceiling and fetisizing lesbians

and using the hetero male murdering them as a sympathy ploy

while not dating bisexuals who potentially have attraction to

https://epgn.com/2021/03/10/lesbian-erasure-a-footnote-to-womens-history-month/Lesbian Erasure: A Footnote to Women’s History Month — Philadelphia Gay NewsWomen’s History Month often seems like Erasure of Lesbians Month. Many critically important women in American history past and present were lesbians: Susan B. Anthony, Jane Addams, Dr. Alice Hamilton, Dr. Emily Blackwell, Dr. Sara Josephine Baker, Rachel Carson, Dr. Sally Ride, Barbara Jordan, Pauli Murray, Dr. Ruth Gates, Patrisse Cullors and so many others. […]Show Moreepgn.com

meanwhile

every person gets a yes or not, without a value judgement

https://emjaymurphee.medium.com/why-gay-men-wont-date-trans-men-a6daf1bbd51aWhy (Some) Gay Men Won’t Date TransmenTransphobia doesn’t quite explain itemjaymurphee.medium.com


Gay, bisexual, and queer trans men navigating sexual fieldshttps://journals.sagepub.com › doi › pdf
by AI Scheim · 2019 · Cited by 15 — Trans men are individuals assigned a female sex at birth but who identify as male or masculine. Sexualities. 2019, Vol. 22(4) 566–586 ! The Author(s) 2017. Article …
Sexual Health of Trans Men Who Are Gay, Bisexual, or Who …https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov › …
by GR Bauer · 2013 · Cited by 72 — Recent reports have addressed the sexual health of female-to-male transgender or transsexual people who are gay, bisexual, and/or have sex with men (trans …


Primed²: A Sex Guide for Trans Men into Men | CATIE …https://www.catie.ca › resources › primed-sex-guide-tra..

It contains important information about staying sexually, mentally and emotionally safe and healthy. Primed was originally published in 2007 and updated in 2015.
16 Things I Learned From Having Sex With Trans Menhttps://www.advocate.com › sexy-beast › 16-things-i-le…

comments from mewe:

Alex C

I don’t like this modern trend in the community where some are calling others bigots or trsnsphobes for being attracted to just one set of genitals and not the other. I’m sorry, but we aren’t all pansexual or bisexual. Sexual attraction is not just about gender as many would have you believe. It’s also about biological sex and always has been, whether we like it or not. It isn’t fair to label someone a bigot or judge their character for their sexual attractions. Sexual attraction is NOT a choice and never has been. That is a fact that seems to be lost on more and more people in the community these days.

nina
yes. exactly. people with a wider range of attraction do need to stop calling monosexuals bigots for gay or lesbian sexuality.

and there is no reason to be sorry or that canadian as to say it to soften the view you are legit able to hold and express. and that is legit on the face of it

and the idea of removing biology from understanding people is also very bizarre, especially given dating is sexual selection and not a human rights issue.

name calling just validates a no on dating, as it is a major red flag on what a relationship would be. Dating is about attraction to and is selecting for sexual activity and as such, is a personal choice that everyone has a yes or no on, without threat of name calling, assault, rape or murder. Being rejected as a date is not a human rights complaint.

Alex C

Yeah, removing biology is a good way to put it. Some are 100% pan and 0% concerned with any biology or anatomy, and good for them, but we aren’t all like that. I can’t pretend to be pansexual to make that community happy, that would be like asking a straight person to pretend to be gay, and calling them a bigot for not being gay attracted. That’s absurd, and I hope this trend doesn’t stick or it will be very unhealthy for the community.

As a cis gay man I’ve always found the prospect of gay trans men interesting. I sometimes find myself attracted to trans men. Most that I’ve met in person seem to be interested in women though.

nina

I do not use the term cis, it has too many problems with the sissy slur and copting from black culture sounding like sis and. your identity is in your world experience. not other people’s who need other words to make sense of themself.

it is hard to have a conference on women and exclude mensuration, abortion/pregnancy and, menopause as panels and discussion/information.

nor should anyone pretend to be attracted to who they are not or use a label to avoid being name called.

bisexuals vs pansexual is a horrible debate too, bisexual being binary attraction and pan being beyond binary should be a compromise

Alex C

I personally don’t like the term pansexual because in fact there are NOT a panorama of sexes. There are 2 biological sexes, and in rare cases intersex. Pansexual refers to an attraction to multiple genders, and gender is a distinct concept from biological sex, so they really should describe that differently and not fight with people who are bisexual.

nina

bi vs pan is not about either one of those, it is about transgender. and it is about making gender something in a person’s mind and that is kinda like having to respect a person’s religion when you are an atheist.

once you reject the idea that there is only one hetero way to be either gender, it is not hard to realize there are many ways to be. personality and character is not limited to sexuality/gender and for lesbians there is one word that includes both, given faggot was not reclaimed by gay men.

Alex C

Gender is a social construct and a personal issue. I don’t like when people misuse science and try to say that science proves anything about gender. It doesn’t. Science only proves biological sex, and shows there’s a spectrum of hormonal balances, brain chemistry and neurological patterns that usually correspond to one biological sex but don’t always, and many people (including me) exist somewhere on that spectrum. We’re just getting caught up in stupid labels with all this infighting about what is factual and what isn’t, and who is “woke” and who isn’t. The science is very clear.

nina

how gender is represented and expected is a cultural concept that does vary, but that people have a gender is biology. I agree – it is also like religion vs biology, when biology says nothing about religion, and anthropology puts religion in it’s cultural place.

academics, medical, legal and then average people understanding differs across jargon specific vs casual use of language – and then are the agenda activists.

MEANWHILE:

everyone is one person and not any or all others.

“all identities simultaneously” – anyone else wondering how self loathing is driving this?

The film depicts Wagemans making the prototype for a futuristic mask, a piece of hackable body equipment that would incorporate software and could conceptually queer the notion of identity. “The story Samuel created is about documenting the making of a mask that is a fictive hacked nano-tech transhuman prototype that connects a global network of queer people who reject the mainstream appetite for immortality, super-intelligence, and well-being,” she told Dazed. “An object that you could take off and allows any uncensored software to be installed like scrambled identity – becoming all identities simultaneously.”

https://www.dazeddigital.com/art-photography/article/52776/1/artist-esmay-wagemans-creates-technology-for-the-future-queer-bodyArtist Esmay Wagemans creates technology for the future queer body | DazedThe science fiction artist envisions how biotech and technological enhancements may further the cause of queer liberation, for Samuel Douek’s short film STONEWALL 2069www.dazeddigital.com

Queer Culture March 12

March 12, 1958
Jazz singer Billie Holiday, who had pled guilty to a narcotics-possession charge in 1956, is given a year’s probation by a Philadelphia court.

Openly bisexualHoliday had several affairs with men and women

1985

first memorial to the Nazi’s gay victims unveiled: a pink granite stone monument at the former Neuengamme concentration camp, inscribed “Dedicated to the Homosexual Victims of National Socialism.”

1986, (in response to the above, not occurring on this day:)

I was the only student in my Canadian history class at Princess Margaret Secondary School, Surrey BC, who was allowed to know about gays and lesbians in the camps. I was not allowed to tell the others because we were not supposed to know that LGBTQ2 existed in 1986.

History students from many lower mainland of BC high schools were bussed to the University of BC for a holocaust conference.

1988

Rick Astley’s “Never Gonna’ Give You Up” unseated “Father Figure” by George Michael for #1

from wikipedia

Released in the United Kingdom in December 1987, “Father Figure” reached number eleven on the UK Singles Chart – the first time Michael had failed to reach the top ten in his home country. The song remained a live favourite at Michael’s concerts for many years and is also one of his most frequently aired songs on the radio in the United Kingdom.

In the United States, “Father Figure” became George Michael‘s sixth number one single (including three number one singles garnered as half of Wham!). “Father Figure” debuted at number 49 on 16 January 1988, while “Faith” was still prominent (at number nine) in the top ten of the chart. In the subsequent weeks, “Father Figure” was a surefire hit, reaching number one by its seventh week, 27 February 1988, staying at the top for two weeks. Altogether, the single spent six

Chart (1988–2016)Peak
position

weeks in the top ten, nine weeks in the top twenty, and 14 weeks in the top forty.

let’s play person or bot


let’s play person or bot!

this queer blogger

that is not accurate. a democracy majority rules in who hold office. it has nothing to do with street crime. and if it was true that the idea was to protect against the majority, then white hetero men would not still be in charge almost exclusively. and LGBTQ2 would have gotten rights decades ago

that meme makes it sound like the democrat party will take your bike while the republican party will let you keep it…

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Jason Harris (the poster of the above image I replied on)

You said it but like most Democrats you forgot the Constitutional part

this queer blogger
you are a republican nazi and are part of the problem.

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this queer blogger
the meme is misleading and false, just like republicans

I am not an American, I am a Canadian very concerned about the USA. #LestWeForget

Jason Harris

Lol lets see how many executive orders did Joe Biden sign in his first month? After saying if you rule by executive order you’re a dictator. Your brainwashed and are the problem. But it’s ok your Canadian so I understand.


And oh yah hashtag sleepy joe might remember something

this queer blogger
yay, bot, your heterosexual male right wing vs heterosexual male left wing taunts have no effect on a Canadian Lesbian, and your lack of response to the comments also suggest you are more bot than person.

this queer blogger
@mewe group owner

I have spotted a suspected bot of a trumpian troll

Jason Harris

So because I dont agree with you and you call me a nazi I’m a bot troll you really are a joke.
Oh yeah the Democrats cheated to steal the election.
And I think I spotted a communist.

this queer blogger

no. because you respond like a bot, you repeat your insults and no facts and do not reply to the substance of the post you botspam spewing trash

Jason Harris

Like I was supposed to respond to you telling me about your sexual preference like I care

this queer blogger

because you are a right wing and a heterosexual white man who does not define other people or words and does not have a valid opinion based on your content of meaningless bullet points not even your words, just party whining and trash talk

Jason Harris

In your automatic response of calling people a Nazi is it batish give me a break. Have a nice night I got better things to do like to recharge my batteries

this queer blogger

indeed, you do not care about anything but your own opinion, why there is no difference between heterosexual white men and internet trolls in the first place.

republicans are nazis.

religious sex scandal yawn

anyone surprised?

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-53897647Jerry Falwell Jr denies quitting Liberty University amid sex scandal – BBC NewsJerry Falwell Jr denies leaving Liberty University after claims emerge about his private life.www.bbc.comShare (1)Emoji

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Big Gay Al ☆☆☆

To be expected, at this point. I’m not surprised at all, tbh.

nina tryggvason

yes. I wonder why they go through the public hater phase, its such a cliche

Tom The Bug The New Gay Stereotype

Alex Blue 

I don’t know why this is even gets attention when there are more serious issues at hand?

For examples:

Why is Valdamere Putin allowed to live and rule Russia when he’s another Adolf Hitler?

Why are Russians racist, homophobic, misogynistic hateful bigots?

WTF is wrong with devout extremist religious people and their hate for science and reason, their hate for universal human rights and lastly why are they such bigoted blind sheep?

Why are there’s an anti LGBTQ rallies in B.C. Canada and Poland?

Why there’s a rise of racism and racial decisions?

Why religious people neglecting to protect themselves from COVID-19?

Finally: Why, why is Trump so fucking stupid?

because christian and muslim are the same religion, part of judaism and the Abrahamic trilogy would rather destroy the planet than allow others to pursue happyiness.

this I posted as a normal news as a break from Putin having a north pole base and the geo political instability. and Canada has no federal government and is facing a throne speech and confidence vote in the fall while there is a pandemic.

blue collar jobs do not pay as well as brains at workstations jobs and religion undermined education. so while Canadians are over educated and underemployed, Americans are unqualified to get back the jobs they outsourced in the 1970s

religion gives people that feel good about poverty and the scapegoat gives them someone to blame for the problems they are the cause of.

preachers preach poverty is noble and they live in mansion complexes with private planes and own networks…. so when they help themselves to children, teenagers and vulnerable adults… this is why the personal is the political because it just represents. predators who prey…

putting the fun back in fundamentalist the fear that somewhere someone is having fun.

okay – if you did not do a thing and someone said they had video (never mind that we pretty much have the tech to create such a video)

the inability to prove a negative problem, but also a confession

the more powerful in public the more submissive in private

ask any dominatrix.

https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2018/04/comey-trump-asked-me-to-prove-the-pee-tape-wasnt-real.htmlComey: Trump Asked Me to Prove the ‘Pee Tape’ Wasn’t RealComey writes that the president asked if the FBI could investigate the “golden showers thing” to prove to Melania that it wasn’t true.nymag.com

If you have to touch a conservative, be sure to out them afterwards

it is the only way they will learn the closet is a bad place and to not genocide others.

otherwise, do not have sex with conservatives

https://nationalpost.com/news/world/jerry-falwell-jr-becki-tilley-giancarlo-granda-liberty-universityFormer cabana boy speaks about sexual relationship with Jerry Falwell Jr. and wife Becki | National PostGiancarlo Granda says he had sex with Becki Falwell, watched by Jerry Falwell Jr, an influential figure in the U.S. Christian conservative movementnationalpost.com

hate crimes: people say terrible things and others tend to act on them

https://www.yorkshireeveningpost.co.uk/news/crime/hateful-rhetoric-against-transgender-people-culminating-physical-attacks-sheffield-lgbt-charity-warns-2949759Hateful rhetoric against transgender people is culminating in physical attacks, Sheffield LGBT charity warns | Yorkshire Evening PostHateful rhetoric against transgender people has echoes of the homophobia seen forty years ago and is even resulting in people being attacked, an LGBT charity has said.www.yorkshireeveningpost.co.uk

https://www.washingtonblade.com/2020/08/19/supreme-court-sets-nov-4-to-hear-if-adoption-agency-can-reject-lgbtq-parents/Supreme Court sets Nov. 4 to hear if adoption agency can reject LGBTQ parentsThe U.S. Supreme Court has set Nov. 4 as the date when it will hear oral arguments on whether a taxpayer-funded religious-affiliated adoption agency can lawfully reject same-sex couples — a case that could have significant impact on policies and laws prohibiting discrimination across the board.Show Morewww.washingtonblade.com

https://friendlyatheist.patheos.com/2020/08/23/anti-muslim-megachurch-preacher-real-christians-hate-abortion-and-lgbtq-people/Anti-Muslim Megachurch Preacher: Real Christians Hate Abortion and LGBTQ People | Hemant Mehta | Friendly Atheist | PatheosThis delusional buffoon wants his congregation to catch COVID.friendlyatheist.patheos.com

no really not.

https://www.gaytimes.co.uk/life/new-polish-minister-has-linked-lgbt-ideology-to-a-civilisation-of-death/New Polish minister has linked “LGBT ideology” to a “civilisation of death”Zbigniew Rau, the Polish Minister of Foreign Affairs fits right into the homophobia in Poland, having linked “LGBT ideology” to a “civilisation of death.”www.gaytimes.co.uk

  1. tradition on their side and 3. religion is why the planet does not have nice things like no war and universal health care and human and environmental rights.. but especially human ones.

https://www.toledoblade.com/news/religion/2020/08/23/religious-offerings-virtual-multi-faith-service-celebrates-lgbt-pride/stories/20200823016Religious Offerings: Virtual multi-faith service celebrates LGBT pride | The BladeMulti-faith pride
Equality Toledo sponsors a virtual multi-faith service at 7 p.m. Thursday.
Described as a welcoming and affirming service in …www.toledoblade.com

dear queer people do not marry straight people.

they deserve to have someone who loves them as they are

just like LGBTQ2 do and now in many nations, we can say i do

https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-53907669Elton John’s ex-wife ‘attempted suicide’ during their honeymoon – BBC NewsRenate Blauel says she took an overdose during the couple’s honeymoon in 1984.www.bbc.com

see also Covid Pandemic bonus

dear politics. that is not how science works.

https://www.ctvnews.ca/world/without-evidence-trump-accuses-fda-of-delaying-vaccine-trials-until-after-election-1.5075363Without evidence, Trump accuses FDA of delaying vaccine trials until after election | CTV NewsU.S. President Donald Trump on Saturday accused, without providing any evidence, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration of deliberately delaying coronavirus vaccine trials, pressuring the man he had picked to head the agency.www.ctvnews.ca

dear science, this is how politics is supposed to work

https://www.thestar.com/politics/provincial/2020/08/21/doug-ford-and-justin-trudeau-team-up-to-get-n95-masks-made-in-ontario.htmlDoug Ford and Justin Trudeau team up to get N95 masks made in Ontario | The StarSpooked by a shortage of N95 masks early in the pandemic — and rattled by U.S. President Donald Trump’s threats of cutting off vital supplies — Ontari…www.thestar.com

Wedding vs Hater Cake

https://www.towleroad.com/2020/08/anti-lgbt-activist-orders-cake-with-hateful-message-from-lesbian-owned-bakery-then-cries-discrimination/

Anti-LGBT Activist Orders Cake With Hateful Message from Lesbian-Owned Bakery, Then Cries Discrimination – Towleroad Gay NewsAn anti-LGBT activist ordered a rainbow-colored cake with a hateful anti-gay message from a lesbian-owned bakery, then cried discrimination when his request wasn’t fulfilled. David Gordon, who works for the Michigan-based right-wing Catholic group Church Militant, ordered the cake last month from Good Cakes and Bakes in Detroit, which is owned by April Anderson and …www.towleroad.com

If you are truly incapable of distinguishing between an act of love and an act of hatred, then you need to sit down for a very long, very careful re-evaluation of your life.

If on the other hand you’re intentionally not distinguishing between an act of love and an act of hatred, then you need to sit down for a very long, very careful re-evaluation of your soul.

given that the religious relationship between the deity and the follower could be on the domestic abuse relationship checklist… they really are unable to distinguish.

Moderates and Apologetics are not True Beleivers

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In a way, I can admire the clarity of thinking of fundamentalist believers; they just believe whatever is told them, without question. It must be very restful to not struggle to understand, but just accept. I can understand the appeal … Continue reading →

religion is force of evil

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Religion is not a force of good or positiveness in the world. Religion doesn’t teach people to care for and look out for each other – as evidenced by the Mormon and Catholic Church’s continual efforts to prevent gays and … Continue reading →

Ordering Cake and Eating It Too

Posted on December 31, 2017by dykewriter

The Oregon Court of Appeals ruled against bakers who refused to make a cake for a lesbian couple’s wedding, upholding the fine against them. The case involved Sweet Cakes by Melissa owners Aaron and Melissa Klein, who told lesbian couple Rachel Cryer and Laurel … Continue reading →

Cake to the Pie Hole: Karmalicious

Posted on March 6, 2018by dykewriter

Bakers who refused to make wedding cake still trying to get out of paying damages Randomutation • 3 hours ago The claim that refusing to service a celebration of same sex marriage discriminates against gays is as illogical as saying that the … Continue reading →

Cake Politics: Ending the Rule of Law

Posted on June 5, 2018by dykewriter

That narrow Supreme Court decision may not stay narrow for long Nina Trygg • 2 minutes ago religion is now a get out of jail free card free to refuse service, deny rights, rape and murder and nothing remains narrow in law … Continue reading →

Services and Cake, who gets to order and eat it

Posted on August 27, 2019by dykewriter

Dear America: you were founded on the idea of freedom FROM religion. https://catholicherald.co.uk/news/2019/08/26/kentucky-supreme-court-hears-religious-freedom-case-over-lgbt-shirts/ Kentucky Supreme Court hears religious freedom case over LGBT shirts | Catholic HeraldThe Kentucky Supreme Court heard oral arguments on Friday in the case of a Christian … Continue reading →

Religion causes genocide and suicide

Posted on July 30, 2019by dykewriter

finally the headline I have been waiting to see https://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-49150753 LGBT people are ‘being made homeless due to religion’ – BBC NewsNearly half of young LGBT people left homeless after coming out are from religious backgrounds.www.bbc.comShareEmoji 1 Alex Blue3 minutes … Continue reading →

Hatred has no moral grounds

Posted on August 14, 2018by dykewriter

Jeff Sessions spoke at a hate group summit & told them ‘You are not a hate group’ Susan D • 5 days ago If your organization’s “sincerely held religious belief” includes hating people, then yes, you are a hate group. … Continue reading →

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Bathroom Access and Dignity

Posted on February 3, 2019by dykewriter

This is the thing about rights they are not conditional on any other person’s value judgement.  everyone has a right to dignity to go about their lawful and private business and religion is a personal opinion, with followers now claiming … Continue reading →

Bathrooms: Private vs Public Access

Posted on February 3, 2018by dykewriter

Nina Trygg  VirgoVegan • 12 hours ago I once accidentally walked into a men’s bathroom and used the facilities and did not realize until I was at the sink, washing my hands looking in the mirror at the urinals on the wall behind … Continue reading →

Policing Public Bathrooms

Posted on March 5, 2017by dykewriter

Public Bathrooms are the place where children, women and vulnerable people are at at highest risk of being verbally or physically abused – and the vast majority of abusers are Heterosexual Men. Male violence against other males as primary competition … Continue reading →

Bathrooms and Elevators

Posted on January 1, 2017by dykewriter

Vulnerable and alone, often in off hours Bathrooms and Elevators are 2 of the most dangerous places also Parking Lots. It is frustrating for The Mainstream to villainize Transgendered people in bathrooms, because in reality – it is the transgender … Continue reading →

Fatty Fatty 2 by 4, Can’t Get Through the Bathroom Door

Posted on August 20, 2015by dykewriter

the taunting children’s playground refrain becomes a haunting voice the size of an average person in north america is larger now than 30 years ago, but clothing sizes are scaled to negative numbers and everywhere you go, the seats are … Continue reading →

Queer Conservatives really are, eh

conservatives queers are part of the problem

https://www.metroweekly.com/2020/08/gay-trump-supporter-arrested-after-defacing-black-lives-matter-mural/Gay Trump supporter arrested after defacing Black Lives Matter muralLGBTrump founder Mark-David Hutt was charged with criminal mischief after defacing mural outside Trump Towerwww.metroweekly.com

Quirk Sugarplum12 hours ago

I’ll never get “Conservative queers”. Is it some sort of Stockholm syndrome?

“Yeah, I know they want to crush, eradicate, and ban everything about me, including sometimes my actual life. But…I dunno. Just look at them! They’re so powerful. Totally dominant. How can you resist that? It just makes sense when they say it.” 🙄

nina tryggvason 

they think they are heterosexual enough for being ethnic bigots, the same why ethnicities who hate queers are white enough in the republican big tent.

Quirk Sugarplum

Adding to the above, I know that’s a silly oversimplification. It’s a complex thing with many shades of gray. But still.

nina tryggvason 

feel good bigotry, pick on them, not me. more minion than bystander


also in this era, that is a white man in a tshirt for trump. he could be paid to be wearing that shirt and not LGBTQ2 at all.

The Darkest aspect of the Potterverse

https://www.out.com/politics/2020/8/04/peter-thiel-gay-billionaire-funding-anti-lgbtq-republicanPeter Thiel, Gay Billionaire, Is Funding This Anti-LGBTQ+ RepublicanThe contributions from the PayPal cofounder are the “lifeblood” of Kris Kobach’s campaign.www.out.com

how many more decades? cause one by one is too slow for social change

https://www.economist.com/leaders/2020/08/08/as-more-gay-people-come-out-tolerance-will-spreadThe globalisation of gay rights – As more gay people come out, tolerance will spread | Leaders | The EconomistThough in some countries to be open is still to risk deathwww.economist.com

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