Sex and Stigma: stop slurring, negging and name calling

all sexualities’ are both fetishized and face disinterest

everyone needs to take a breath step back,

learn to accept a no, learn to say no

and mostly, learn to stop naming calling those not interested

not every sexuality is attracted to all others

and there are sexualities that are specific to biological gender

https://www.redbrick.me/why-is-bisexuality-still-so-stigmatized/Why is Bisexuality Still So Stigmatized? | Redbrick CommentComment Editor Phoebe Snedker discusses biphobia and misconceptions about the sexual orientation, arguing that the countless stereotypes have a significant impact on bisexual people and their relationships with others.www.redbrick.me

it is not biphobic nor transphobic to say no to a date.

it is homophobic and transphobic to claim it was reasonable to assault, rape and murder as heterosexual men do in court

Every person is allowed to say no, I am not interested, not attracted.

that is the opposite of a fear, which is what a phobia is.

To not want the difference between hetero, gay or lesbian which is a sexuality mismatch with a bisexual person

and a gender mismatch for heteros, gay men, bisexual males and females and lesbians with persons who are transgender; as an the outward appearance and a mismatch with the gender one desires intimacy and sex with – the clothes away from heterosexual, but combined with the co-opting feminist intersectionality theory and pushing a penis into it; and especially the pornography term cotton ceiling, the confession of fetishization of lesbians, which frustration is not ours to resolve. Human rights recognition is all that is owed – dignity in the public square

and the loss of safe and crisis space for women – such as rape and battered women’s shelters for mostly heterosexual women, but also bisexual and lesbians – and the newly emerging pansexuals

seeking safety from partners who control the language, the financial and relationship decisions, and who cannot accept a no inside or before a relationship even.

and bisexuals having the usual of being thought to be more likely to cheat, while being sought by men for threesomes

each person identifies themself in terms of who they are and who they seek to date.

heterosexuals, gay men, bisexuals and lesbians are clear in that by the words.

the pansexual group is distinct from bisexual and is a word that includes attraction to transpersons

to each group their own label to advertise who a person is seeking to partner with, monogamously or polygamously with informed consent

and anyone who complains they are unable to get dates, need to work on their appeal, not cry fowl, bigotry, name call, complain about stereotypes or social standards, and generally demonstrate what an unappealing and inconsiderate person one is of other people’s human rights and identity

which, a demographic which forms a dating pool, such as lesbians or gay men, everyone is not secretly bisexual or trying to mimick heterosexuality

and a person feeling like they belong is demonstrated by those in the dating pool not including them

and while a person may have a diagnosis of trans, or be uncomfortable with one’s own body – it is not up to any other person to date you and ignore their own senses and own identity to be validator

Lesbians are vagina experts as gay men are penis experts

bisexuals enjoy both, but not a blend of both genders in one body

and bisexuals can date each other, as well as often heterosexuals, gay men and sometimes lesbians, which prior to marriage equality, bisexual women tended to have longer relationships with men, and bisexual men did too.

pansexuals date whoever; because everyone is dating another person.

no one enjoys being a fetish across demographics especially

nonbinary is an emerging demographic which has yet to form a clear recognition in and out of the demographic and males may not self identity out of being part of the gender oppressing women and the majority of the violence and sexual violence threats, any more than women may nonbinary self identify away from potential harm – and no women’s sexuality protects them the socialized and individual male gender caused violence.

Lesbians are not the caretakers and validators of the rest of the letters who are unclear on what lesbian means an apparently are okay with rape culture when no does not mean no anymore but a challenge to escalate to name calling and shaming.

Transpeople are not marginalized by gay and lesbian and bisexuals, but by their population statistics, with most seeking relationships with heterosexual men

Lesbians get to date other lesbians, without being shamed or excluded from the community which is ignoring lesbians have a right to say no to a date with anyone, but also as a demographic to say transwomen are not lesbians and are a category of incel – to be polite, for lesbians, transwomen are clothes from heterosexuality – and transphobia is the hetero justification for rape and murder – so the lesbian no to a date is very much the opposite; and in the case of a transwomen and a lesbian, it is the lesbian who is the rape vulnerable body; especially if denied a no to a date, which means not having a no to sex, which is denied informed consent, a no and by the logic extreme, even the safeword to end sex when the sex is unwanted or the scene includes something not consented to.

We helped Gay men with Aids after the heteros women did not help lesbians after they got reproductive and workplace rights

Lesbians are woman centric, and we have the choice and right to be

without being slurred, shamed or judged for who we do not date

any more than who we do

in fact, everyone needs to stop being bothered because most people are not dating you

and stop being bothered who is dating who

and stop harassing others who have nothing to do with your life nor you theirs

Representation of LGBTQ2

for too long, since the start of movies and tv, where LGBTQ2 characters either suicides, murder victims or murders and for lesbians, also vampires.

so no. Fuller, this is not the character to make LGBTQ2

he is a fictional character and a cannibal.

so no thanks, that is not the represention that LGBTQ2 is going for.

https://www.menshealth.com/entertainment/a33286603/hannibal-lecter-pansexual-bryan-fuller-season-4/Hannibal Showrunner Bryan Fuller Confirms Hannibal Is Pansexual‘Hannibal’ showrunner Bryan Fuller confirmed a popular fan theory about the killer, played by Mads Mikkelsen, and hinted at what might happen in season four.www.menshealth.com

Gay child murderer is really not the representation LGBTQ2 is looking for. thanks anyway.

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2020/07/21/nightmare-on-elm-street-freddy-krueger-robert-englund-queer-remake-gay/Gay Freddy Krueger actor wants a queer Nightmare on Elm Street remakeThe actor who played the horror movie villain Freddy Krueger in A Nightmare on Elm Street wants a queer remake of the classic film.www.pinknews.co.uk

Gay for Pay vs Representation

Posted on January 27, 2019by dykewriter

No. queer is not the acting part, the character is. eh. Caroline Evans Thats the essence of acting though… pretending to be someone else in a convincing way. Jake Gyllenhall was straight irl in Brokeback mountain. This sounds like you’re … Continue reading →

https://filmdaily.co/news/lesbian-relationship-sex-scenes/Representation matters: The best lesbian relationship sex scenes – Film DailyWe’re here to prove that lesbian sex scenes need more hype and that representation in the media really matters. Here are the best sex scenes.filmdaily.co

Why Representation Matters: LGBTQ

Posted on July 5, 2018by dykewriter

Scarlett Johansson will play a trans man, but she doesn’t get why people are mad Nina Trygg • 12 minutes ago Dear Heteros if you really want to show LGBTQ support, then stop taking the few roles that represent us support our … Continue reading →

https://www.autostraddle.com/amazon-streaming-queer-lesbian-bisexual-tv-shows/32 Lesbian, Queer & Bisexual (LGBTQ+) TV Shows Streaming Free on Amazon Prime | AutostraddleAmazon Prime has loads of TV shows for queers who love to watch queer content! View our updated list of television shows and web-series available to stream at Autostraddle.com.www.autostraddle.com

Representation and Inclusion: Multicultural World

Posted on December 30, 2016by dykewriter

Sikh NYPD officers now have the uniform option of full turbans.   Wtf The end is near Canada’s RCMP went through this in the 1990s, and it had to be pointed out that India was in the Commonwealth before Canada … Continue reading →

https://freenews.live/velma-from-scooby-doo-was-created-to-be-a-lesbian/Velma from Scooby-Doo was created to be a Lesbian | FREE NEWSProject producer Tony Cervone confirmed the fan’s guesses: he stated that Velma was always a lesbian in the 2010 animated series Scooby-Doo! Mystery Incorporated.freenews.live

yes. but how much more of an impact had the performer doing that character being LGBTQ2?

https://www.eonline.com/ca/news/1172176/brittana-forever-celebrating-naya-rivera-s-immeasurable-impact-on-the-queer-communityBrittana Forever: Celebrating Naya Rivera’s Immeasurable Impact on the Queer Community – E! Online – CAIn the days since Naya Rivera’s tragic death, LGBTQ fans have made it clear just how impactful her groundbreaking portrayal of Glee’s Santana Lopez really was.www.eonline.comShare (2)Emoji

Black Lives Matter third March on Vancouver Pride 2019

Posted on July 28, 2019by dykewriter

Yesterday I was out of the house and not thinking about my life for most of the day. I went to Emery Barnes Park in Vancouver and walked around talking to a few people and this is the sign that … Continue reading →

https://www.globaltimes.cn/content/1195021.shtmlHigh school filmmaker releases LGBTQ film on mainstream Chinese video platforms – Global TimesOn July 13, film Forbidden Love in Heaven was released on Chinese streaming platforms. The film is notable not only because it focuses on LGBTQ issues, but also as it was made by a high school senior during his spare time.www.globaltimes.cn

https://www.vancourier.com/diversity-of-lgbtq-characters-in-film-declines-study-finds-1.24171244Diversity of LGBTQ characters in film declines, study finds | Vancouver CourierNEW YORK — Last year saw record representation of LGBTQ characters in the 118 films released by major studios, according to a new study by GLAAD. But for the third straight year, the racial diversity. . .www.vancourier.comShare

Point vs Talking Point

Posted on February 9, 2019by dykewriter

Should Straight Actors Play LGBTQ Characters? Two queer writers debate a Hollywood conundrum. nina tryggvason 13 days ago No. queer is not the acting part, the character is. eh. Caroline Evans13 days ago Thats the essence of acting though… pretending … Continue reading →

https://www.scmp.com/magazines/style/celebrity/article/3093145/5-pioneering-bollywood-stars-who-have-supported-lgbt5 pioneering Bollywood stars who have spoken up for LGBTQ+ livesThese Bollywood celebrities have used their star power to highlight and promote LGBTQ+ rights both on and off screenwww.scmp.com

the aids decade, when life was simpler

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/music/concerts/elton-cookedburgers-freddie-stole-show-insiders-view-backstage/‘Elton cooked burgers and Freddie stole the show’: an insider’s view backstage at Live AidPete Smith, an unsung hero of Live Aid and Band Aid Trust’s sole employee, shares his unique memories of the historic concert, 35 years agowww.telegraph.co.uk

meanwhile in 2020

https://dailyhive.com/vancouver/actors-speak-out-unwritten-rule-diversity-hallmarkVancouver actors speak out about “unwritten rules” limiting diversity in Hallmark films | NewsVancouver actors and casting agents are speaking out against an unwritten rule limiting diversity at Hallmark in the Vancouver film scene.dailyhive.com

Heterosexual women vs LGBTQ2 women, womyn, womxn, wimmin

social titles: Miss Mrs Ms

the profession or the professioness or professionette

https://www.thestar.com/opinion/letters_to_the_editors/2020/07/16/jk-rowlings-transgender-comments-are-misunderstood-and-misconstrued.htmlJ.K. Rowling’s transgender comments are misunderstood and misconstrued | The Starwww.thestar.com

from the article:

“she is raising an alarm about the increasingly common trend to use a gender-neutral term, like “people,” to group together the LGBTQ community with biologically born women, (who identify as women), to the point where it is becoming unacceptable to use the word “woman.”

Nina Notes the word “heterosexual” is missing from the above paragraph.

and it is a problem for White Heterosexual Women to be included on par with LGBTQ2, some of whom are white, the most visible and represented portion of the qmunity.

White Heterosexual Women are the group most likely to be allied with part of PFLAG – Parents and friends of. leveraging their lesser than heterosexual male privileged, on behalf, so as each group steps up, the idea is turn around and help the next group to access rights and dignity of person.

There is no question that equitable linguistic representation demonstrates respect and tolerance for more complex gender/sexual identities. But, scrubbing language of essential gender-specific words, which work eminently well for society at large, and arguably for most women, can hardly be called tolerant or respectful.”

Nina notes: including self definition as well as determination, each to our own identifiers and labels and not sticking them on others, each to our own.

https://www.autostraddle.com/glaad-2020-film-report-mainstream-movies-continue-to-ignore-lesbian-bisexual-queer-and-trans-women/GLAAD 2020 Film Report: Mainstream Movies Continue to Ignore Lesbian, Bisexual, Queer and Trans Women | AutostraddleOf 118 major studio releases in 2019, 15 included gay men, eight included lesbian or bisexual women, and zero included trans characters.www.autostraddle.com

It is sad to me when writers resist the message of their work

I include SE Hinton and her distress over the slash fan base

but also those who subtexted role models they needed

how telling her books could not be sold as written by a teenaged girl

in books about sensitivity and compassion

and standing up against those who cause the need for that owing to those marginalizations

The Darkest aspect of the Potterverse

Posted on February 16, 2017by dykewriter

Art reflects Life; which imitates Art http://www.dailyxtra.com/blogs-and-columns/history-boys/homosexual-nazis-and-the-night-the-long-knives-180399 Homosexual Nazis and The Night of the Long Knives | Daily Xtra historically it’s also accurate and remember, the first purge the Nazis did was inside of all the gay men https://www.queerty.com/gay-supremacists-literally-nazi-stormtroopers-guy-thinks-20170215 Are … Continue reading →

Love is a many gendered and blendered thing

Dear Harry Potter

Posted on November 24, 2016by dykewriter

Explain a world of English Magic, that never included Stonehenge.   The Problem with Co-Opting Herstory: Boudica Civilization Expansion: Colonize and Resource     J.K. Rowling On Native American Wizards – Called Skin Walkers on … indiancountrytodaymedianetwork.com/…/jk-rowling-native-american-wizards-called-… Mar 9, 2016 – Lovers … Continue reading →

Litworld: The Potterverse vs Christianity AGAIN

Posted on September 19, 2014by dykewriter

http://www.tickld.com/x/this-woman-just-changed-harry-potter-for-her-kids-seriously   1. This is a perversion of fanfiction and I mean that with the full meaning of fan from genfandom to the slashers   2. Stop making your children socially incompetent and inept to deal with real world reality. … Continue reading →

Godbot Watch: Kindly Update your “D&D” to “Harry Potter”

Posted on April 29, 2015by dykewriter

the 80s called, that issue was resolved then, You should update to Harry Potter. Dungeons and Dragons is full of occult demons, warns Baptist pastor Serious business. boingboing.net back in the late 1980s and early 1990s, I was at the … Continue reading →

The Burnings Continue

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Book Burning The only censorship that I can support is for a person wishing not to be exposed to something they find objectionable is for them to simply avoid it. Censor their own access to the objectionable book, movie, TV … Continue reading →

see also:

https://venturebeat.com/2020/07/14/study-describes-facial-recognition-system-designed-to-identify-non-binary-people/‘Fundamentally flawed’ study describes facial recognition system designed to identify non-binary people | VentureBeatIn a study, researchers describe a controversial approach to designing facial recognition systems that aim to identify non-binary people.venturebeat.com

so – who is what, and who has what rights. in 2020. this is why heterosexuals are not in the qmunity of LGBTQ2, not because they are oppressed and murdered less, they are not, they are often married off to their rapists, after all, white heterosexual women were the chattle of the heterosexual men, property under the law, not named in the law as having rights; while there were laws against sexuality and passing for a gender in the terms of that centuries ago era;

with ethnicity of any person often reduced to being property rather than persons, with or without full legal rights of financial and body sovereignty.

LGBTQ2 were marginalized in that society, over time and nations.

arachic and appalling concepts those from last century and the previous should be

yet. here we are in 2020

a bible waving snakeoil saleman shilling for beans in the oval office offering feel good bigotry to get people to vote against their own financial and health care interests.

Sen Joe McCarthy of the 1950s vindicated on that one point

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2020/07/15/non-binary-trans-lgbt-youth-suicide-trevor-project-mental-health-self-harm-survey/The largest study of trans and non-binary youth reveals more than half have seriously contemplated death by suicideMore than half of trans and non-binary youth have seriously considered suicide with in the last year, according to a study from The Trevor Project.www.pinknews.co.uk

https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/entry/trans-gender-reveal-non-binary_ca_5f0ccffec5b6af83647d7b3bGender Reveals Look A Bit Different When They’re For A Non-Binary Teen | HuffPost Canada ParentsAn Ohio family decided to have a celebration for their son’s coming out.www.huffingtonpost.ca

Brass Tack shared a postTimelinea day ago

💠 OK thanks I was wondering why the Goya Memes.

First they bankrupt us with 6 months of insanity and Denialism. Now they are going to sell beans to rub it in that we are broke. Or is this the designer luxury brand for the pantries of the elite bunkerbunnies? Either way  🤬 them!!!

Freida FayeTimelinea day ago

THE MOST FOOLISH FIRST FAMILY.     ‘In the middle of a pandemic, they’re selling beans’: Chris Cuomo blasts Trump for hawking Goya.   AND MELANIA IS GETTING BOOED AT HER RARE EVENTS.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2020/07/16/cuomo-trump-goya/‘In the middle of a pandemic, they’re selling beans’: Chris Cuomo blasts Trump for hawking Goya“This is not left and right; this is reasonable, my brothers and sisters,” Cuomo said. “The guy is sitting on the Resolute desk with a bunch of Goya products.”www.washingtonpost.comShareEmoji

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Brass Tack14 hours ago

The Orange Elephant forgets. I don’t. Living in a ‘news desert’, I just hadn’t heard about this particular controversy before. And despite shopping at real Mexican stores, I’ve never heard of Goya before either — maybe that’s because they don’t stock it?7 RepliesView previous replies

Brass Tack20 minutes agoedited

Typical. Look up the cold case of ‘Precious Jane Doe’ to find out why I’m in such a bad mood today.

nina tryggvasona few seconds ago

i learned a few years back one of my fave swears was an expression dating back to a 1800s young woman who was left dead in a dumpster. her name was annie so sweet fuck annie morphed into sweet fuck all over time.. disposable women. I am pretty sure “precious jane doe” will not help mine today…

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