dear would be hetero allies to LGBTQ2


But especially would be heterosexual males who presume to be in rather than adjacent to LGBTQ2,

  1. you do not get to use victim language to any LGBTQ2 individual, you do not share the queer experience
  2. you do not get to define terms or words, nor explain others lived experience

I was kicked out of 12 facebook LGBTQ2 groups owing to being an atheist, and a number of atheist groups owing to being LGBTQ2

partly the problem of most things being discussed in a hetero male right vs hetero male left manner, devoid of hetero women and against LGBTQ2 to against that against but not inclusive of LGBTQ2.

on a new social media site, mewe, where I experience as much censorship from the site and the heterosexual normativity, as I did on facebook and now instagram where using the phrase “heterosexual man” results in hate crime notifications.

in 2021, still fighting the same decades to centuries old bigotries.

it is not gatekeeping to tell Heterosexual men of low to no libido to incels that they are not part of the LGBTQ2 qmunity for failing to conform to heteronormative appearing norms.

LGBTQ2 is differing expressions, absent of yours;

this morning, I had a hetero moment reminder: posted in a mewe group

dear would hetero allies to LGBTQ2

making the qmunity about you, as if heteros define the qmunity

shows how much not an ally and how much not a part of the qmunity you are

heteros do not decide about LGBTQ2 and do not have more valid views, which are dismissals of LGBTQ2 voices.

it is not gatekeeping, it is that heteros do not share history, oppression and do not understand how to listen

and cannot interpersonally relate with LGBTQ2

hetero allies would understand the difference

heteros who are seeking queer validation of heteros are part of the problem of queer erasure

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THEN – what I tried to edit that too, with only the “comments line above” being accepted as a second edit attempt.

I am a member of this group, and not an admin or moderator nor owner of.
I have already blocked the group member who posted that heterosexual men of low or no libido were members of the qmunity, and that is not something hetero cis males get to decide
the experience I had as one of the letters in LGBTQ2 was being told the hetero asexual male’s day and communication manner was more important than the issue raised, which could have easily been replied to at point in the day or tomorrow when there was time for a reply.
LGBTQ2 have been historically and currently genocided and oppressed and the leading cause of suicide is bulling by hetero sexual males in family and at schools and in the workplaces as adults.
the LGBTQ2 are distinct groups who have experienced legalized oppression, criminalization and had our sexuality and gender be a subject of medical debate.
through which, we have shared stories and histories and relationships.
making the qmunity about hetero asexual males, as if heteros define the qmunity they are claiming to be part of, as we are also working to kick out the pedophiles who are also attempting to be openly members of the qmunity.

heteros do not decide about LGBTQ2 and do not have more valid views, which are dismissals of LGBTQ2 voices.
it is not gatekeeping, it is that heteros do not share history, oppression and do not understand how to listen
and cannot interpersonally relate with LGBTQ2
heteros who are seeking queer validation of heteros are part of the problem of queer erasure
actual hetero allies would understand the difference

further, the recent chanting of “I’d rather be a pervert than a terf” – the transwomen need to be concerned about what kind of pervert is chanting with them.

really think of the children, eh.


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Dear Some: All or None is so Zero Sum

“:all lives matter” is a bigot claim to ignore the experience of minorities

https://www.macleans.ca/opinion/i-dont-care-whether-all-lives-matter-is-said-in-ignorance-its-just-another-example-of-racism/‘I don’t care whether All Lives Matter is said in ignorance—it’s just another example of racism’ – Macleans.cawww.macleans.caShare (1)Emoji

Quirk Sugarplum27 minutes ago

It’s like paraphrasing Animal House.

All lives matter. But some lives matter more than others.

And the ones who’s lives matter more just happen to be the ones in a position to decide others’ lives matter less.

could have not dykesplained it any better. this i am gonna blog. Heterosexual men have to stop defining, insulting, assaulting, raping and murdering women who say no, men who ask for a yes and anyone who they think tricked them. given how they treat other heterosexual men, I am appalled that modern era feminism is about as behaving as badly as and as if, equality has been achieved. eh.

from another post, for the blog

Time for the professional medical profession to take the lead and not have non-expert celebrities from entertainment or sports

and especially not religion

speak to gender and sexuality and inform government policy

Writing on Twitter, Rowling said: “Since speaking up about gender identity theory, I’ve received thousands of emails – more than I’ve ever had on a single subject.

“Many have come from professionals working in medicine, education and social work. All are concerned about the effects on vulnerable young people.”

Referring to a post from the Transgender Trend website, she added: “The writers of this letter are just two of a growing number of whistleblowers.

Doctor and social media personality Eugene Gu said: “Treating transgender kids as if their gender identity is a mental illness causes them unimaginable psychological harm. Let people choose their own identities.”

Many stars of the Harry Potter movie franchise, including Daniel Radcliffe and Emma Watson, have condemned Rowling’s views.

https://ca.sports.yahoo.com/news/jk-rowling-medical-scandal-comments-094230094.htmlJ.K. Rowling predicts ‘medical scandal’ in transgender commentsJ.K. Rowling believes a “medical scandal” will engulf the NHS over its identity clinicsca.sports.yahoo.com

Have you ever met any humans? They don’t usually pay attention to actual professionals, medical or otherwise.

If only we could cross-pollinate celebrities and professionals. sigh.  But even then about half the time we get the worst traits combined and end up with a defect like Dr. Oz or Deepak Chopra.

i try to avoid them, I don’ anthropomorphize that species

i have a intergenerational and intersectional LGBTQ2 blog and i wonder if you are okay with my posting the exchanges we have. I think others would benefit from reading.

I can only guess you mean to use me as an example of poor thinking and bad expression. 😄

lols. far from, we do tend to agree more than most readers read for tho, eh.

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