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Wedding vs Hater Cake

https://www.towleroad.com/2020/08/anti-lgbt-activist-orders-cake-with-hateful-message-from-lesbian-owned-bakery-then-cries-discrimination/

Anti-LGBT Activist Orders Cake With Hateful Message from Lesbian-Owned Bakery, Then Cries Discrimination – Towleroad Gay NewsAn anti-LGBT activist ordered a rainbow-colored cake with a hateful anti-gay message from a lesbian-owned bakery, then cried discrimination when his request wasn’t fulfilled. David Gordon, who works for the Michigan-based right-wing Catholic group Church Militant, ordered the cake last month from Good Cakes and Bakes in Detroit, which is owned by April Anderson and …www.towleroad.com

If you are truly incapable of distinguishing between an act of love and an act of hatred, then you need to sit down for a very long, very careful re-evaluation of your life.

If on the other hand you’re intentionally not distinguishing between an act of love and an act of hatred, then you need to sit down for a very long, very careful re-evaluation of your soul.

given that the religious relationship between the deity and the follower could be on the domestic abuse relationship checklist… they really are unable to distinguish.

Moderates and Apologetics are not True Beleivers

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In a way, I can admire the clarity of thinking of fundamentalist believers; they just believe whatever is told them, without question. It must be very restful to not struggle to understand, but just accept. I can understand the appeal … Continue reading →

religion is force of evil

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Religion is not a force of good or positiveness in the world. Religion doesn’t teach people to care for and look out for each other – as evidenced by the Mormon and Catholic Church’s continual efforts to prevent gays and … Continue reading →

Ordering Cake and Eating It Too

Posted on December 31, 2017by dykewriter

The Oregon Court of Appeals ruled against bakers who refused to make a cake for a lesbian couple’s wedding, upholding the fine against them. The case involved Sweet Cakes by Melissa owners Aaron and Melissa Klein, who told lesbian couple Rachel Cryer and Laurel … Continue reading →

Cake to the Pie Hole: Karmalicious

Posted on March 6, 2018by dykewriter

Bakers who refused to make wedding cake still trying to get out of paying damages Randomutation • 3 hours ago The claim that refusing to service a celebration of same sex marriage discriminates against gays is as illogical as saying that the … Continue reading →

Cake Politics: Ending the Rule of Law

Posted on June 5, 2018by dykewriter

That narrow Supreme Court decision may not stay narrow for long Nina Trygg • 2 minutes ago religion is now a get out of jail free card free to refuse service, deny rights, rape and murder and nothing remains narrow in law … Continue reading →

Services and Cake, who gets to order and eat it

Posted on August 27, 2019by dykewriter

Dear America: you were founded on the idea of freedom FROM religion. https://catholicherald.co.uk/news/2019/08/26/kentucky-supreme-court-hears-religious-freedom-case-over-lgbt-shirts/ Kentucky Supreme Court hears religious freedom case over LGBT shirts | Catholic HeraldThe Kentucky Supreme Court heard oral arguments on Friday in the case of a Christian … Continue reading →

Religion causes genocide and suicide

Posted on July 30, 2019by dykewriter

finally the headline I have been waiting to see https://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-49150753 LGBT people are ‘being made homeless due to religion’ – BBC NewsNearly half of young LGBT people left homeless after coming out are from religious backgrounds.www.bbc.comShareEmoji 1 Alex Blue3 minutes … Continue reading →

Hatred has no moral grounds

Posted on August 14, 2018by dykewriter

Jeff Sessions spoke at a hate group summit & told them ‘You are not a hate group’ Susan D • 5 days ago If your organization’s “sincerely held religious belief” includes hating people, then yes, you are a hate group. … Continue reading →

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Bathroom Access and Dignity

Posted on February 3, 2019by dykewriter

This is the thing about rights they are not conditional on any other person’s value judgement.  everyone has a right to dignity to go about their lawful and private business and religion is a personal opinion, with followers now claiming … Continue reading →

Bathrooms: Private vs Public Access

Posted on February 3, 2018by dykewriter

Nina Trygg  VirgoVegan • 12 hours ago I once accidentally walked into a men’s bathroom and used the facilities and did not realize until I was at the sink, washing my hands looking in the mirror at the urinals on the wall behind … Continue reading →

Policing Public Bathrooms

Posted on March 5, 2017by dykewriter

Public Bathrooms are the place where children, women and vulnerable people are at at highest risk of being verbally or physically abused – and the vast majority of abusers are Heterosexual Men. Male violence against other males as primary competition … Continue reading →

Bathrooms and Elevators

Posted on January 1, 2017by dykewriter

Vulnerable and alone, often in off hours Bathrooms and Elevators are 2 of the most dangerous places also Parking Lots. It is frustrating for The Mainstream to villainize Transgendered people in bathrooms, because in reality – it is the transgender … Continue reading →

Fatty Fatty 2 by 4, Can’t Get Through the Bathroom Door

Posted on August 20, 2015by dykewriter

the taunting children’s playground refrain becomes a haunting voice the size of an average person in north america is larger now than 30 years ago, but clothing sizes are scaled to negative numbers and everywhere you go, the seats are … Continue reading →

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Queerbaiting vs Inclusion

stop trying to make heterosexuals secretly queer, eh

allies need to work with heterosexuals not replace LGBTQ2 role models

there is enough queer baiting without inventing it ourselves.

https://www.vulture.com/2020/08/taylor-swift-confirms-folklore-theories-about-betty.htmlTaylor Swift Confirms Folklore Theories About ‘Betty’Taylor Swift spoke about the fan theories surrounding the Folklore song “Betty,” and how it’s not about a gay love triangle.www.vulture.com

Quirk Sugarplum

People no longer (by necessity) leave a trail of tiny breadcrumbs leading others through a dark forest’s winding path where there are carefully-disguised clues to their sexuality hidden beneath random stones and mushrooms.

99% of the time if they want you to know, they’ll just tell you.

nina tryggvason 

yes, the only reason to be coy in 2020 is queerbaiting.


and these days, over tell with a main label and subcagtegories.

2008

American singer-songwriter Katy Perry went to No.1 on the UK singles chart with ‘I Kissed A Girl’. The track was a worldwide hit topping the charts in over than 20 countries

Quirk Sugarplum

Nobody ever seems to remember Jill Sobule’s I Kissed a Girl song from way back in 1995. 😕

nina tryggvason 

it was brilliant and the first bisexual/ lesbian music video I ever saw

https://deadline.com/2020/07/billy-eichner-paul-lynde-movie-man-in-the-actor-stigmatized-for-being-gay-eichner-feels-things-havent-changed-for-gay-actors-1202990876/Billy Eichner Talks About Paul Lynde; Set To Star In ‘Man In The Box’ – DeadlineBilly Eichner To Play Paul Lynde In ‘Man In The Box,’ Actor Stigmatized For Being Gay Eichner Feels Things Haven’t Changed muchdeadline.com

Quirk Sugarplum

Such an odd era. Gay men were largely despised in real life. But campy actors like Paul Lynde and John Inman were held in high regard.

nina tryggvason 

the golden era of hollywood even more – the overly fussy prim hotel manager or store manager types. the severe librarians for lesbians – Miss Hathaway in beverly Hillbillies or Ms Danvers in Rebecca…

Queer Conservatives really are, eh

conservatives queers are part of the problem

https://www.metroweekly.com/2020/08/gay-trump-supporter-arrested-after-defacing-black-lives-matter-mural/Gay Trump supporter arrested after defacing Black Lives Matter muralLGBTrump founder Mark-David Hutt was charged with criminal mischief after defacing mural outside Trump Towerwww.metroweekly.com

Quirk Sugarplum12 hours ago

I’ll never get “Conservative queers”. Is it some sort of Stockholm syndrome?

“Yeah, I know they want to crush, eradicate, and ban everything about me, including sometimes my actual life. But…I dunno. Just look at them! They’re so powerful. Totally dominant. How can you resist that? It just makes sense when they say it.” 🙄

nina tryggvason 

they think they are heterosexual enough for being ethnic bigots, the same why ethnicities who hate queers are white enough in the republican big tent.

Quirk Sugarplum

Adding to the above, I know that’s a silly oversimplification. It’s a complex thing with many shades of gray. But still.

nina tryggvason 

feel good bigotry, pick on them, not me. more minion than bystander


also in this era, that is a white man in a tshirt for trump. he could be paid to be wearing that shirt and not LGBTQ2 at all.

The Darkest aspect of the Potterverse

https://www.out.com/politics/2020/8/04/peter-thiel-gay-billionaire-funding-anti-lgbtq-republicanPeter Thiel, Gay Billionaire, Is Funding This Anti-LGBTQ+ RepublicanThe contributions from the PayPal cofounder are the “lifeblood” of Kris Kobach’s campaign.www.out.com

how many more decades? cause one by one is too slow for social change

https://www.economist.com/leaders/2020/08/08/as-more-gay-people-come-out-tolerance-will-spreadThe globalisation of gay rights – As more gay people come out, tolerance will spread | Leaders | The EconomistThough in some countries to be open is still to risk deathwww.economist.com

Representation of LGBTQ2

for too long, since the start of movies and tv, where LGBTQ2 characters either suicides, murder victims or murders and for lesbians, also vampires.

so no. Fuller, this is not the character to make LGBTQ2

he is a fictional character and a cannibal.

so no thanks, that is not the represention that LGBTQ2 is going for.

https://www.menshealth.com/entertainment/a33286603/hannibal-lecter-pansexual-bryan-fuller-season-4/Hannibal Showrunner Bryan Fuller Confirms Hannibal Is Pansexual‘Hannibal’ showrunner Bryan Fuller confirmed a popular fan theory about the killer, played by Mads Mikkelsen, and hinted at what might happen in season four.www.menshealth.com

Gay child murderer is really not the representation LGBTQ2 is looking for. thanks anyway.

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2020/07/21/nightmare-on-elm-street-freddy-krueger-robert-englund-queer-remake-gay/Gay Freddy Krueger actor wants a queer Nightmare on Elm Street remakeThe actor who played the horror movie villain Freddy Krueger in A Nightmare on Elm Street wants a queer remake of the classic film.www.pinknews.co.uk

Gay for Pay vs Representation

Posted on January 27, 2019by dykewriter

No. queer is not the acting part, the character is. eh. Caroline Evans Thats the essence of acting though… pretending to be someone else in a convincing way. Jake Gyllenhall was straight irl in Brokeback mountain. This sounds like you’re … Continue reading →

https://filmdaily.co/news/lesbian-relationship-sex-scenes/Representation matters: The best lesbian relationship sex scenes – Film DailyWe’re here to prove that lesbian sex scenes need more hype and that representation in the media really matters. Here are the best sex scenes.filmdaily.co

Why Representation Matters: LGBTQ

Posted on July 5, 2018by dykewriter

Scarlett Johansson will play a trans man, but she doesn’t get why people are mad Nina Trygg • 12 minutes ago Dear Heteros if you really want to show LGBTQ support, then stop taking the few roles that represent us support our … Continue reading →

https://www.autostraddle.com/amazon-streaming-queer-lesbian-bisexual-tv-shows/32 Lesbian, Queer & Bisexual (LGBTQ+) TV Shows Streaming Free on Amazon Prime | AutostraddleAmazon Prime has loads of TV shows for queers who love to watch queer content! View our updated list of television shows and web-series available to stream at Autostraddle.com.www.autostraddle.com

Representation and Inclusion: Multicultural World

Posted on December 30, 2016by dykewriter

Sikh NYPD officers now have the uniform option of full turbans.   Wtf The end is near Canada’s RCMP went through this in the 1990s, and it had to be pointed out that India was in the Commonwealth before Canada … Continue reading →

https://freenews.live/velma-from-scooby-doo-was-created-to-be-a-lesbian/Velma from Scooby-Doo was created to be a Lesbian | FREE NEWSProject producer Tony Cervone confirmed the fan’s guesses: he stated that Velma was always a lesbian in the 2010 animated series Scooby-Doo! Mystery Incorporated.freenews.live

yes. but how much more of an impact had the performer doing that character being LGBTQ2?

https://www.eonline.com/ca/news/1172176/brittana-forever-celebrating-naya-rivera-s-immeasurable-impact-on-the-queer-communityBrittana Forever: Celebrating Naya Rivera’s Immeasurable Impact on the Queer Community – E! Online – CAIn the days since Naya Rivera’s tragic death, LGBTQ fans have made it clear just how impactful her groundbreaking portrayal of Glee’s Santana Lopez really was.www.eonline.comShare (2)Emoji

Black Lives Matter third March on Vancouver Pride 2019

Posted on July 28, 2019by dykewriter

Yesterday I was out of the house and not thinking about my life for most of the day. I went to Emery Barnes Park in Vancouver and walked around talking to a few people and this is the sign that … Continue reading →

https://www.globaltimes.cn/content/1195021.shtmlHigh school filmmaker releases LGBTQ film on mainstream Chinese video platforms – Global TimesOn July 13, film Forbidden Love in Heaven was released on Chinese streaming platforms. The film is notable not only because it focuses on LGBTQ issues, but also as it was made by a high school senior during his spare time.www.globaltimes.cn

https://www.vancourier.com/diversity-of-lgbtq-characters-in-film-declines-study-finds-1.24171244Diversity of LGBTQ characters in film declines, study finds | Vancouver CourierNEW YORK — Last year saw record representation of LGBTQ characters in the 118 films released by major studios, according to a new study by GLAAD. But for the third straight year, the racial diversity. . .www.vancourier.comShare

Point vs Talking Point

Posted on February 9, 2019by dykewriter

Should Straight Actors Play LGBTQ Characters? Two queer writers debate a Hollywood conundrum. nina tryggvason 13 days ago No. queer is not the acting part, the character is. eh. Caroline Evans13 days ago Thats the essence of acting though… pretending … Continue reading →

https://www.scmp.com/magazines/style/celebrity/article/3093145/5-pioneering-bollywood-stars-who-have-supported-lgbt5 pioneering Bollywood stars who have spoken up for LGBTQ+ livesThese Bollywood celebrities have used their star power to highlight and promote LGBTQ+ rights both on and off screenwww.scmp.com

the aids decade, when life was simpler

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/music/concerts/elton-cookedburgers-freddie-stole-show-insiders-view-backstage/‘Elton cooked burgers and Freddie stole the show’: an insider’s view backstage at Live AidPete Smith, an unsung hero of Live Aid and Band Aid Trust’s sole employee, shares his unique memories of the historic concert, 35 years agowww.telegraph.co.uk

meanwhile in 2020

https://dailyhive.com/vancouver/actors-speak-out-unwritten-rule-diversity-hallmarkVancouver actors speak out about “unwritten rules” limiting diversity in Hallmark films | NewsVancouver actors and casting agents are speaking out against an unwritten rule limiting diversity at Hallmark in the Vancouver film scene.dailyhive.com

The Universe vs all religions

@Quirk Sugarplum

http://www.ecns.cn/hd/2020-07-21/detail-ifzyhpqw4006931.shtmlAstrophysicists unveil biggest-ever 3D map of Universewww.ecns.cn

Quirk Sugarplum

And yet somehow the UPS driver still always delivers my packages to my neighbors’ houses. 🙄

yeah and at the point people have rolling ovens delivering pizza, maybe they should just have gotten one at the store and cooked it at home.

we have this and yet most people on the planet are sure their invisible friend or friends lets them control other people’s rights and genitals. religion is mental illness, devoid of evidence and facts, and is not even internally consistent. i think of the “bible” a collection of dead sea scrolls as the early internet – poetry, propaganda and porn.

it never made sense to me that a being capable of creating the universe, would fixate on one planet, on one species and about gentialia.

the bronze age scrolls had a very limited understanding of the universe and why the deities were invented, placeholders. put aside in the dustbin of history, owing to religious conflict often ending one or both sides. If not other disaster – disease, drought or geological or climate event.

Elevatorgate II

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This story about a man who set a woman on fire in an elevator just put an end to the Elevatorgate lack of perspective incident with Rebecca Watson and Richard Dawkins, so can we finally just agree that elevators are … Continue reading →

My Elevator Story

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I did a flippant post about Rebecca Watson’s Elevatorgate and have ended up having an intense and complex exchange of understanding with a commenter. So yesterday afternoon, I was in an elevator – a tiny cramped space with 2 men. … Continue reading →

Bathroom Access and Dignity

Posted on February 3, 2019by dykewriter

This is the thing about rights they are not conditional on any other person’s value judgement.  everyone has a right to dignity to go about their lawful and private business and religion is a personal opinion, with followers now claiming … Continue reading →

The bathroom dilemma

Posted on August 9, 2018by dykewriter

Originally posted on therawrecoveryspecialist:
More than the genderized battle; and everyone deserves dignity, the matter of paper vs blowers is an environmental concern. We need the trees to breath, while the blowers use electricity and do not actually remove bacteria…

Bathrooms: Private vs Public Access

Posted on February 3, 2018by dykewriter

Nina Trygg  VirgoVegan • 12 hours ago I once accidentally walked into a men’s bathroom and used the facilities and did not realize until I was at the sink, washing my hands looking in the mirror at the urinals on the wall behind … Continue reading →

Bathrooms: Private vs Public Access

Posted on February 3, 2018by dykewriter

Nina Trygg  VirgoVegan • 12 hours ago I once accidentally walked into a men’s bathroom and used the facilities and did not realize until I was at the sink, washing my hands looking in the mirror at the urinals on the wall behind … Continue reading →

Bathrooms and Elevators

Posted on January 1, 2017by dykewriter

Vulnerable and alone, often in off hours Bathrooms and Elevators are 2 of the most dangerous places also Parking Lots. It is frustrating for The Mainstream to villainize Transgendered people in bathrooms, because in reality – it is the transgender … Continue reading →

Fatty Fatty 2 by 4, Can’t Get Through the Bathroom Door

Posted on August 20, 2015by dykewriter

the taunting children’s playground refrain becomes a haunting voice the size of an average person in north america is larger now than 30 years ago, but clothing sizes are scaled to negative numbers and everywhere you go, the seats are … Continue reading →

27 years of Lesbian Avengers

Lesbian Avengers – Wikipediaen.wikipedia.org › wiki › Lesbian_Avengers

The Lesbian Avengers was founded in 1992, in New York City, as “a direct action group focused on issues vital to lesbian survival and visibility.” Dozens of other chapters quickly emerged worldwide, a few expanding their mission to include questions of gender, race, and class.‎Origins · ‎Actions · ‎First Action: Rainbow … · ‎Role of Media: Love and …
A Brief History – Lesbian Avengerswww.lesbianavengers.com › about › history

They refined media-savvy tactics, often creating actions for their visual appeal, and touched a nerve with the Lesbian Avenger Manifesto. The group quickly …

The Lesbian Avengers 25 Years Later: “We Did It, And We …www.newnownext.com › lesbian-avengers

May 9, 2017 – The term “Lesbian Avengers” probably conjures images of Black Widow and Scarlet Witch in a sapphic embrace. But 25 years ago it was a …You’ve visited this page 2 times. Last visit: 06/08/19
Dykes, Direct Action, and Eating Fire: A History of the Lesbian …www.bitchmedia.org › post › dykes-direct-action-and-eating-fire-a-hi…

Jun 19, 2014 – Kelly Cogswell’s new book details the origins of the Lesbian Avengers—seen at left eating fire at a Dyke March in the early 1990s (photo by …You’ve visited this page 2 times. Last visit: 06/08/19
The Lesbian Avengers Eat Fire, Too (1993) – IMDbwww.imdb.com › title

This film documents the first year of actions by The Lesbian Avengers, a group of bold and brazen New York City activists fighting for recognition and equal rights …
Queer Women History Forgot: The Lesbian Avengers | GO …gomag.com › article › queer-women-history-forgot-lesbian-avengers

Queer Women History Forgot: The Lesbian Avengers. March 1, 2017 Trish Bendix. Remembering the radical group of lesbian activists who pushed for visibility …

Gertrude Stein statue

2020

http://www.newnownext.com/lesbian-avengers-valentines-day-gertrude-stein-alice-toklas-statue/02/2020/27 Years Ago Today, the Lesbian Avengers Erected a Monument to Queer Love | NewNowNextThe activist group “decided to use Valentine’s Day, a day when heterosexual love reigns supreme” to lift up lesbian unions.www.newnownext.com

Be A Lesbian Avenger

Lesbian Avenger Handbook, ed 3www.lesbianavengers.com › handbooks › Lesbian_Avenger_handboo…

Jul 24, 2011 – In that spirit, I’m pleased to present the third edition of The Lesbian Avenger Handbook: A Handy Guide to Homemade Revolution. Typos have …‎Preface · ‎Introduction · ‎Planning an Action · ‎Graphics/Visuals
Handbooks – Lesbian Avengerswww.lesbianavengers.com › handbooks

Lesbian Avenger Handbooks. Still, an incredible organizing tool for any activist group, The Lesbian Avenger Handbook: A Handy Guide to Homemade …
The Lesbian Avengers Handbook – Act Upactupny.org › documents › Avengers

The Lesbian Avengers are a direct-action group focused on issues vital to lesbian survival and visibility. Formed in 1992, The Lesbian Avengers are not part of …

Intro to Naughty Nineties Dyke Mentoring

The 1990s was the Decade before 9/11 changed the sense of the world, before AIDS was a chronically manageable condition for parts of the world; and it changed the balance of the generational birth rate.

Generation X was the sandwich generation and the adult children of alcoholics, and we were a smaller at birth demographic and our numbers reduced further by AIDS.

For lesbians, it was the Post Butch Femme, we had worked with Heterosexual women from the 1960s and 1970s to achieve the legislated equal pay for equal work and with that, the ability to form our own credit rating not dependent on a father or husband to co-sign, and reproductive rights.

From the women’s movement, we shifted into AIDs support and caretaking as the gay men were the ones affording health care so the virus could be identified, being a slower killer than other viruses out of Africa in the era, with Ebola killing withing 24 hours usually and only in 2019 is there a vaccine for that.

We were no longer butch and femme mimicking heterosexuals, we were Dykes and we were getting things dyke done with respect to human rights across demographics.

In the 1990s, the Gay and Lesbian community presented to the mainstream a Just Like You, Just Happen to be Queer – we were Act Up, Queer Nation and Lesbian Avengers and fighting to serve in the Military and Marriage Equality at the same time.

In Canada, at the Supreme Court, it was Joshusa Birch who won the right for gays and lesbians to serve in the military, while Egan and Nesbitt won survivor benefits, Brian Mossop lead the way for Federal Government queer employees to have equal benefits and it was a group of couples who won marriage equality – not same sex marriage as the phrase in the media was to ensure the disgust reaction of the anal sex imagery or same gender marriage as the community tried to adjust for value judgement language, it was before the court and under the law – marriage equality in 2003.

From 1980 to 2004, Angles was the Vancouver queer paper – for most of it’s run “Gay and Lesbian” to a final era of “Lesbian Bisexual and Gay” to “LGBT” by 2004. with 2019, the Canadian term LGBTQ2 – adding Queer which is a comprehensive and inclusive word of all sexuality including asexual and Two Spirited, from the ingenious culture inclusive of transgender and nonbinary as genderfluidity to the spectrum of sexuality, what we are and what we are attracted to.

This blog and this presentation was prepared by Nina Tryggvason, former news editor, news and arts writer and photographer.

the vancouver lesbian avengers circa 1992

for a while the Toronto paper – Xtra, which began in the late 1970s and peaked in the early 1990s with Xtra in Toronto, Xtra West in Vancouver, Island Xtra on Vancovuer Island, Calgary Xtra in Albert and Capital Xtra in Ottawa is in this era. http://www.dailyxtra.com.

I left Angles and wrote for Xtra West for a short while.

and also, for an American Lesbian Magazine Girlfriends about the 1990s lesbian cancer scare that ended the Lesbian Chic of kd lang, Melissa Etheridge and Ellen coming out.

the 1990s was the era when the public found out about the Germany WW2 camps where the allies did not free everone, they left the queer prisoners in prison.

It was the decade of the end of the closet language, where it was the political that was personal. instead of in this era, when pronouns are personal; and talking points which had bullets are replaced with bullets and cars into crowds with protest signs are deemed speech issues rather than the crimes of the state or by the individual who confuses their religious viewpoint with the secualar law and fails to understand that rights are extended and not demanded, and are not to be denied when asserted, the right to exist trumps the right to complain that others do.

#Lest We Forget is an admonishment to not be a bystander.

Not inside the LGBTQ2 comunity or outside in the mainstream.

After all, we as a species continue to demonstrate, the minority needs protection because the majority cannot be trusted to be fair in the first place.

Nina Tryggvason

2019 – Naughty Ninties Queer Dyke Media Intro.